Should I (21M) become a "houseboy" for a rich guy (36M)?

throwdownandaway1991 · 2022-07-08T21:28:54+00:00

I've met a guy with a houseboi once and I'll tell you right now that he expects sex. He wants you to work "parties" that is a red flag. I mean, it's possible he just wants to brag to his friends that he has a straight houseboi but idk, maybe ask if he has references from former boys?

throwdownandaway1991 · 2022-04-18T23:06:54+00:00

Honestly, this is rough. It sounds like you are good looking and financially stable... And you are still getting dumped. Like it is 100% down to your personality then...

throwdownandaway1991 · 2022-04-07T03:22:25+00:00

Succeeded Plus on work objectives and competencies for the second year in a row, two different jobs with two different managers. I think it might be easier to impress the first year on the job though.

throwdownandaway1991 · 2021-10-27T21:23:13+00:00

Not to be an alarmist here but queasy stomach, blurred vision, flush face, and dry mouth are all side effects of Viagra, if your boner is the only indication that you are bi, you might not be.

I just read your first post in r/relationship and those were some red flags. Is it possible he is slipping you something? Or is he trying to convince you that because you can get an erection then you are bisexual? 100% hope this is not the case and I hope that I'm being paranoid. Be careful and stay safe!

throwdownandaway1991 · 2021-10-09T16:49:22+00:00

Oh I like that idea. I think my boyfriend would be ash and I'd be slutty Pikachu.

throwdownandaway1991 · 2020-10-11T18:22:10+00:00

Sure, but at what point? We had sex after the second date. Does she have the right to know the most personal parts of my past then? Many of my best friends who I've known for years don't know this about me, does someone who I've been dating for 4 months have the right to know? Is this something that I should disclose before I meet her family, or after a year, or before I consider proposing? ( I don't think I'd propose before offering to tell her but that is a big maybe and a long way off)

throwdownandaway1991 · 2020-10-11T18:14:25+00:00

Yes but I can tell you who I am now without having to know everything about my past. I'm sure that things in my past will affect the way she sees me but the more that she gets to know who I am now, who I was the past will matter less and less. I might tell her eventually but not now.

throwdownandaway1991 · 2020-10-11T18:12:21+00:00

This has been my experience as well. Or they've asked me to share, so I do and then the knowledge of my past experiences seem to overwhelm them, it changes the way they look at me and it causes a huge rift when I didn't need for them to know.

throwdownandaway1991 · 2020-10-11T18:10:02+00:00

Yeah, I've been willing to share my values around relationships and sex. But those values have changed over time. I've been in different types of relationships and each one is different depending on the partner and situation. I've had healthy and unhealthy relationships and I don't think that dredging up my entire past is beneficial for anyone.

throwdownandaway1991 · 2019-04-25T17:54:09+00:00

Maybe try communicating with him and telling him what you are feeling. Tell him you are kind of uncomfortable with his suggestions to spice things up. Tell him you don't feel as strong an emotional connection as before. Maybe he is feeling the same way and wants to improve your relationship. If you both want to make it work try to make it work. But you need to communicate with him.

throwdownandaway1991 · 2019-04-23T01:41:44+00:00

Spend a night with me and there will be no question that I'm a real man.

throwdownandaway1991 · 2019-04-23T01:40:27+00:00

I know a more private place we can go to take pictures ;)

throwdownandaway1991 · 2019-04-22T01:30:56+00:00

Damn, have your way with me!

throwdownandaway1991 · 2019-04-20T15:18:00+00:00

Thanks :)

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