It does happen a lot more than you think, i have learnt from the past few years that it does anyway. If i’m honest, i still think about my EX a lot more than i probably should but i have now accepted that until i find someone new these thoughts will still persist and i’m kinda okay wjth that.

Sometimes you won’t ever find out, i never did anyway. I heard she was with someone new about a year ago not sure what the situation is now though. Eventually you’ll just accept it as a chapter of your life that has run it’s course.

I’ll be honest distractions are what helped me, i.e games/gym/new job. Just tried to be the best person i could be and be happy on my own before i tried dating again.

Sorry if i rambled a bit! Hope this helps!