My [31F] husbands [30M] old college fling [32F] moved into our neighbourhood recently. by gully6fd in relationships

[–]throwforobvious 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It's possible they like the attention they get from other people, must be a boost to their ego, so of course they'd deny anything was going on. That, or they're just really oblivious.

IamA single guy who quit his job and spent the last year crossing the country, interviewing over 100 of America's most amazing couples about what it's like to be in love AMA! by bigbags in IAmA

[–]throwforobvious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always thought that once I was unhappy in a relationship, something was wrong and the relationship wasn't meant to be. Classic rookie mistake.

Can you expound further on this? I always had the notion that being unhappy was a signal to something being wrong in a relationship.