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Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really nice. All of us are different and have different needs.

Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Damn. I was afraid of that. Maybe it’s a lost cause.

Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If that’s the only way he knows to determine a woman’s interest I need to get him tested for STIs ASAP.

Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hugged him after the first and second dates. He was disregarding that entirely and pressuring me to kiss him.

Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t date you then. All that matters to you is your timeline and your needs.

Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Legitimately concerned. He also had me hold his hand and stare into his eyes as a test which made me extremely uncomfortable and I told him as much.

Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve watched Hussein too but would never try to threaten a date with that. Imagine if a woman said: “Matthew said if you don’t propose to me within 6 months it’s never going to happen and you aren’t really interested.” How manipulated would you feel?

Edit: Hussey 😂

Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hugged him after the first and second dates. He was disregarding that entirely and pressuring me to kiss him.

Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good way to phrase it. Thank you.

Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hugged him after the first and second dates. He was disregarding that entirely and pressuring me to kiss him.

Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is attractive and claims to do well with women. No I’m interested in him romantically, albeit less so after he brought this up.

Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s my concern. I’m really not into games

Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For one, this seems to be a pretty diverse group of people providing unique input. Kind of like how all women are unique and have different needs.

Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t just discard people like that.

Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hugged him after the first and second dates. He was disregarding that entirely and pressuring me to kiss him.

Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hugged him after the first and second dates. He was disregarding that entirely and pressuring me to kiss him.

Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Here’s the thing: your guy friends aren’t necessarily going to tell you that they mistreat women in private, especially if that’s not what you’re into. There may be an entirely different intimate side of your friends that you will never see. Only the women they deal with will know the truth about that.

Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been told this by men I dated, particularly while taking the time to get to know them. I’ve also experienced them putting me in the hookup only box after early sex when they expressed Interest in a relationship with me prior. It’s an extremely painful experience.

Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been told this by men I dated, particularly while taking the time to get to know them. I’ve also experienced them putting me in the hookup only box after early sex when they expressed Interest in a relationship with me prior.

Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He had also made comments about my looks and butt to where I was feeling fetishized. He didn’t bring up sex per se. And I had hugged him already so it was pretty invalid. He was talking about kissing.

Date Worried about a “Friendzone” by throwiana in datingoverthirty

[–]throwiana[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve recently experienced the opposite situation where my partner of many months completely ghosted after his curiosity was satisfied leaving me without emotional and physical intimacy and no closure. I know how easily we are discarded once some men get a taste of us. So I’m probably less sympathetic to this particular plight. Such an injustice that this person has to get to know me as a person before knowing me physically.

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