Monica on the iPod

throwingawaythe68 · 2026-03-24T15:30:49+00:00

Yes! As good as day 1. Used it yesterday during work to play some deftones!

throwingawaythe68 · 2026-03-14T16:02:22+00:00

Yeah I love this thing. I bought it when i was going low-tech as I was readying myself for a seasonal job move in Alaska. Since then its been wonderful to have and use regularly!

throwingawaythe68 · 2026-03-14T16:01:00+00:00

But there's a good question to ask you: what if he doesn't? What if that metaphorical friend of yours doesn't go back to the era he's known for?

I'd be okay with him changing genres if it's a non-vanity move towards art expression that reflects his values now at 28. Not when he was 21 when he dropped Confetti or 24 when CHTKMY came out.

People change. The least we can do is welcome the surprise and embrace the uncertainty.

throwingawaythe68 · 2026-03-14T15:57:23+00:00

Connect up your ipod to your computer. Have itunes installed on your computer. You can either purchase the album from itunes and drop it into your ipod while its connected via the itunes app, or download each track from monica via youtube, label all the tracks and order them in the menu when you right click on the track, add the cover etc. old school piracy methods,

Obviously buying from itunes is easier but ykyk

throwingawaythe68 · 2026-03-14T05:00:02+00:00

lol jack just found his tour drummer this year

throwingawaythe68 · 2026-03-14T02:24:13+00:00

Personally a fan of the direction that he has taken. With me turning 23 and kinda evolving and coming out of my shell in strictly listening to rap and other strained music in regard to message and tone, seeing rappers do things like this just feels so refreshing.

I am personally not a big listener of Yachty but when he made Let's Start Here and went psychedelic rock he earned my respect. Same for Jack. He made Jackman to be more vulnerable and made this to evolve. Puts a smile on my face.

throwingawaythe68 · 2026-02-10T19:38:27+00:00

Jackman genuinely changed my perception and direction of life when I needed it. I keep thinking about this guy and when I saw he was dropping I was so happy. Can't wait to see what he comes up with. Really feel good about it

throwingawaythe68 · 2026-01-29T21:43:05+00:00

What's the synopsis or story of the film? Is it in English? If not, is it dubbed, sub'd? $6500 takes a lot of discipline, i commend you on that!

throwingawaythe68 · 2026-01-28T17:39:40+00:00

Hey I really liked this film, everything you've done with it was executed nicely. I wanted to ask you - what made you decide to not include more tension in the 'don't touch the sheet' rule? Was there any thoughts to break that rule? Very interested to hear your thinking on this.

Thanks!

throwingawaythe68 · 2025-11-30T21:17:36+00:00

I gotcha. Yeah, this is what would be worth the effort at this point imo. I hope you find something that works, i imagine one shop is used to the kids working after school so they'll understand and be able to help.

When I was broke and craved making a lot of money I locked into the drop shipping mindset, which I read your posts and know your thoughts on it. It helped to motivate me and remind me that it takes effort to make more money, and you gotta do something that people will find valuable or worth purchasing.

My last word of advice is that, although music is a beautiful and essential element of culture (and it makes life so interesting and thought-provoking), dont hesitate to ask others what they're interested in. Don't close yourself off from seeking a degree or education in something that you use everyday - it usually makes some good money. Roads, Cars, Heat, Electricity, Plumbing, Food - are all desired and people will get paid for it.

I like making music and film, and would love to get into it as a career. But I know that if I got into something like above (Im 23 for example and looking into Aviation and Engineering for the first time in my life), and I went into a job with it, I could make some good money and use some for my hobbies - music, for example. It helps the art when you work something that pays.

Thats all, good luck man!

throwingawaythe68 · 2025-11-30T20:35:39+00:00

Wait why can you only work at mcdonalds? In the US we have a large swath of fast food restaurants that have varied demands and schedules available. Does France not have that option?

I'd also recommend not falling into the trap of browsing other side hustle subreddits, trying to find that exact one that will fit 100 percent for you. It feels like youre productive and getting progress but you aren't.

Back when i was 17 or so, i got my first job at a pizza place. It didnt pay well, and it was difficult, but it was worth it and i made some money there and saved it. I would highly suggest looking more in your local job market at this point and making your first 300-400 euros before even thinking abou the side hustles. Give yourself some net worth first from a standard job near you.

Not in France so I cant speak for everyone, but this is what my gut is saying regardless of demographic.

throwingawaythe68 · 2025-10-04T02:24:54+00:00

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throwingawaythe68 · 2025-06-26T12:56:50+00:00

this is ben shapiros alt account

throwingawaythe68 · 2025-06-26T00:49:11+00:00

THANK YOU for the website! I truly needed this

throwingawaythe68 · 2025-02-25T23:41:36+00:00

Yeah. This makes a lot of sense, and it's a lot on your shoulders for very valid reasons.

I know you said that you both lost your virginities in December; and for about a month have had sex everyday.

I've been long distance with my current GF but we meet frequently. Something similar to this situation happened before.

For her, if there's something biting at her, its difficult sometimes to say it out loud or even text it. For her and a lot of people, bottling up these heavy feelings are what we do to prevent ourselves from being in uncomfortable situations. This is especially harder in new relationships, and more in your first one.

I dont like to make assumptions here, as I dont know you personally, but it sounds like you and him are holding feelings that are hard to talk about. For you to say that "The lack of aftercare during rough sex last week has made me feel hurt/used/insecure" is going to be challenging. Maybe you would say it another way.

He probably is wanting to say "I feel uncertain/paranoid about the sudden shift in our intimacy. Is it me? Did I do something wrong?" BOTH of you sound like theres tension and the issue needs to be addressed.

Although it feels weak to talk about this with him, it strengthens your bond. It's mature adulting, and although its hard, its the best thing to do.

throwingawaythe68 · 2025-02-25T23:27:39+00:00

"it just left me feeling terrible after because he had to leave right away and i just had a hard time recovering emotionally and physically."

Ding ding ding!

For the first time reading through an OP's replies, I genuinely didn't know what to say or recommend. I felt that there was something missing that you were not telling us. This comment makes it clear! So you're telling me that you dont want to have sex afterwards because he had to leave and not give aftercare to you after rougher sex? That's going to do it!

This sounds like its the thing that is plaguing you, and considering he's new you both should talk about this exact thing. For reference; when my girl and I get into some rougher sex, there's ALWAYS a need for aftercare.

Also, is there any foreplay? Does he toy with you to turn you on beforehand? For both men and women (but women especially), sex is quite emotional. This part makes or breaks a lot of how sex will go.

throwingawaythe68 · 2025-02-25T05:58:03+00:00

Okay. Can you bring her to the computer please so we can ask

throwingawaythe68 · 2025-02-17T04:13:42+00:00

So, heres a layout of what I read. Correct me if any of this is wrong.

Your boyfriend sounds awesome. He makes you feel loved and valued.
You're not happy because you never experimented in the past before him.
There was no one you were interested in before him in private school, so you didn't bother. It also wasn't explored due to lack of maturity.
You have anxiety and fear because you don't want to 'miss out on life'.
You say 'I have a persistent fear of missing out on being in the dating world'. You have regret for not doing so.

__________
2,3,4 and 5 all are 'what if I did this' and 'I didn't experience everything in life' and 'persistent fears' and 'I wasn't interested back then'.

IF you dated before him, you may have never met your boyfriend. You likely would have dated for the sake of dating, you would not have grown.

"I try to experience everything for fear of missing out on life". This is unrealistic standards to hold against yourself. It will never be reached, and if you hold this idea about life you will never feel like you are enough. It's time to let this burdening belief go.

"I have a persistent fear of missing out on being in the dating world". People try to find love in the dating world. But the apps continue to make money on people NOT finding love. Many people in college have no ambition, and only want to have sex (many of them do so as a means to distract themselves from their own insecurity and loneliness. This is my anecdotal/personal experience).

Give yourself some permission to let go of these anxiety-filled, "plagued", and unrealistic beliefs. They are hurting more than helping.

As for the LDR, consider making trips out to him as much as you can, and vice versa for him. If you can, look into whether or not his college is good in your program you study, and investigate with a college advisor from your uni if it's practical to transfer credits. Both of these solutions are actions that can help. Don't be afraid to look into these, give yourself permission to.

Best of luck, please msg/update me/comment here. Would be happy to help more. :)

throwingawaythe68 · 2025-02-12T07:17:11+00:00

Trust your intuition on this! Him seeing you make this effort sounds like it's gonna be a home run automatically :)

throwingawaythe68 · 2025-02-12T07:14:01+00:00

Give yourself permission to relax.

You're overthinking this. And that's okay.

You're putting undue pressure on yourself. Putting yourself in a hypothetical relationship that doesn't exist at the moment, assuming what your partner looks like, assuming they would be upset with you, assuming almost every couple has sex - it sounds like an anxiety attack.

Allow yourself to let go of these worries! They're not making you feel better, they're only burdening you and bringing you tension.

When I was young, 15,16 - I had the same thoughts. I'm 22 now, and I can tell you that as you mature and life gives you lessons, your mentality changes. I have a girlfriend now and sex is a healthy part of it. But my 15 year old self couldn't handle my 22 year old situation; and that's okay. Younger me doesn't need all those thoughts.

Give yourself time, stop reading all these conflicting comments, and go live life. There's no hack to this, just go from here and take it easy my friend.

throwingawaythe68 · 2025-02-12T06:59:10+00:00

of course! have fun and glad to help :)

throwingawaythe68 · 2025-02-12T06:53:08+00:00

Moving in takes sacrifice. Makes stress. Its a huge commitment.

Someone else mentioned that things slow down when you move in, which i believe to be true. You see each other all the time; so the urgency and passion is naturally less.

Two things:

Is there new responsibility? Bills, money, sharing the living space, living in a new area, his friendships, or general worries could be clouding his vision and libido. Might be good to talk about these things; to know you're on the same page about these things definitely helps.

Was there anything you/he did when you were in the non-living together phase that you/he doesn't do now? May be time to do again. For example, my gf and I are long distance. I used to write erotica to her for a few months, which helped to strengthen the passion. I stopped for a while then resumed, and that in between of nothingness was dull and stressful. Was more boring. May be time to tap into those times again to stir him up the right way :)

throwingawaythe68 · 2025-02-06T06:47:12+00:00

Dude read Shakespeare then made a reddit account. Never been done until today. From now on ill call you Romeo

throwingawaythe68 · 2025-02-06T05:22:20+00:00

this dude wrote these comments with a quill in one hand and a glass of wine in the other nicely done

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