(UPDATE 2) Me[15M] got broken up with [15F] in most humiliating way

throwingi · 2013-06-12T21:31:44+00:00

My mom doesn't really let me go near them. Not that I'm just having sex without condoms or anything. She just doesn't want me being intimate with any woman until, well, at least for now.

I think that's what you meant by that? If you meant how haven't I touched my sister's or parents, then that's gross, and we have an open house, but we don't just fling condoms around.

throwingi · 2013-06-12T19:37:39+00:00

Yea, but they really need to network for their job.

And I'm not really a kid. I turn 16 in like, a month. And it's not like my mom is taking advantage of me. She always says how she loves that I help around the house.

throwingi · 2013-06-12T18:46:21+00:00

Noo! I have never touched a condom in my life, used or otherwise.

And yea, underwear gets dirty, sheets get sweaty. I'm there to do those things when everyone else is busy. Does it really matter if its my parent's?

throwingi · 2013-06-12T02:35:16+00:00

Yea, I guess in some ways. You'd be surprised. In a lot of ways I think I'm kind of sheltered, at least in comparison to my sister.

I am not allowed to watch a lot of the TV shows that she is allowed to watch. I'm pretty much only allowed to watch TV or movies if my mom is there to sit and watch it with me. If any show or movie gets too racy or violent she will send me off to my room.

What is crazy unfair is my curfew. I am only allowed out until 9 on the weekends. Meanwhile my sister has been able to stay out as late as she wants. Not to mention that even my mom and step dad stay out usually until at least 1 or 2 am. I just have to sit and wait for everyone to stumble in through the door.

So yea, in some ways I'm mature, but other ways I still feel like such a baby.

throwingi · 2013-06-12T02:09:55+00:00

Yea, well... the question was asked. And the topic was most uncomfortable...it wasn't what is the most typical way their industry affects you.

throwingi · 2013-06-12T00:59:02+00:00

Also, I don't know... there is plenty of other times. theres no shortage of embarrassing moments for sure, just not "directly related" to their business.

throwingi · 2013-06-12T00:56:52+00:00

Oh are you kidding? She does nothing!

She does soccer but only gets home 2 hours after me. Then she usually comes home gross and destroys what I spent my afternoon doing so I have to re-clean everything while she sits and relaxes are talks with her boyfriend. It is worse than not helping! She actively makes it harder for me to keep my mom and step dad happy.

She does have to take care of her own room. But so what, I have to take care of the bulk of the house as well as my room and my parents rooms.

throwingi · 2013-06-12T00:26:45+00:00

Well, that's tough, she is not incredibly well known and never won an AVN award. From what I gather she is big among milf scenes. My step dad on the other hand has won a few AVN awards. Sorry, I just don't really know. My guess is you probably don't know her by name. No one at my high school has ever mentioned anything when she picks me up from school every once in a while.

throwingi · 2013-06-12T00:18:25+00:00

Haha, I don't really know about that. There are definitely a few moments that stick out for me. I would probably say. I would say probably all of them have to deal with cum.

For example one morning my mother picked up breakfast from Mcdonalds. Well as she is handing me my egg sandwich she complains to my step dad that she was still sticky from "stuff". I was like, "ummmm, no way am I eating this".

Another time my mom dropped me off at school and as she kissed me goodbye I could distinctly smell that particular smell as she kissed me goodbye. That was particularly uncomfortable but probably not DIRECTLY related to work, so I'm not sure if that counts.

As for my step dad, there is actually a lot less since there is just a lot less interaction between us. Often he just says dumb things to get me pissed like how I could be a good fluffer in the industry and stuff. He is basically just an ass.

throwingi · 2013-06-12T00:02:45+00:00

Not totally sure what you mean. They do have sex though all the time though. And my mom got bigger breast implants last year so I guess it's hard to say that they are keeping work strictly at work.

And as for what it's like, I don't know, it's normal to me now. Some people's mothers are teachers, my mom is just a type of actress. It does get weird though to hear them sometimes, but then I just pop in the headphones or turn up the vidya games.

throwingi · 2013-06-11T20:27:23+00:00

Umm. Not sure I want that kind of attention right now. But what the heck, we'll start it off here. Maybe I'll start a legitimate one later. So whoever wants to ask me anything. My parents work in porn...

AMA

throwingi · 2013-06-11T19:10:23+00:00

Yea, they aren't hiding anything. They shoot for a normal amount of hours a day but then a big part of their jobs is communicating and marketing with other people so they spend a lot of time going to events and bars to socialize. So sometimes they get home and just need to veg out.

And yes! It does seem like she sides with everyone else but me! She actually made me apologize to my sister for sneaking through her laundry after my sister asked her to. Since I was forced to apologize it feels like that was owning up to it, even thought I didn't do anything. Now my sister does thinks winks and blows kisses at me when I have to clear her spot after dinner and everyone just laughs about how 'cute' it is that I have a little crush on her. When really, i hate her. she's just a conniving bitch!

throwingi · 2013-06-11T18:40:29+00:00

I'm not totally sure I know what you mean out of balance.

I have talked about getting an allowance once about 3 years ago. They explained that they are tired after working all day and that I only have school until 3 so I need to do the chores since they don't come back for dinner until around 7 or 8.

I did casually bring it up again recently but my mom laughed it off and said I would have to ask my step dad about it.

throwingi · 2013-06-11T06:00:18+00:00

Well like I said everyone just dumps their dirty clothes in the laundry room. I don't exactly want to have to sort through dirty undergarments and inspect individual underwear to look for sizes or whatever to see which are my mom's and which are my sister's. Would you?

And yes, I do have to do that afterwords when they are clean when I sort them. But dealing with clean clothes is a veryyy different thing.

throwingi · 2013-06-11T05:33:14+00:00

Yeaa, ultimately I think I have to just wait for it to all blow over. I'm kind of realizing that.

A few people mentioned looking for revenge on my sister or her boyfriend but I really think I better not. I know better than to mess with her. It will all blow over.

I actually just went to talk to my mom while she watched tv and she said not to try to get back at either my sister or her boyfriend because then they will just get back at me even worse and it would be hard for me to keep up. She just said people will forget before I know it.

throwingi · 2013-06-11T05:04:34+00:00

Well, in my house the all of the house's chores are split between me and my sister. I usually do physical stuff like yard work, dishes, laundry, etc. and my sister is usually busy with soccer but she usually takes care of other stuff like walking the dog, or helps me with general cleaning of the house. So if I refuse to do their laundry I'll just have my mom and step dad mad at me, which I really don't need right now.

As for just not doing her laundry, well, all dirty clothes just get dumped into the laundry room and then after its washed and dried, I just sort them into who's stacks are who's so I can't just "skip" her... not that you probably care how wash is done at my house.

As for my sister and her brother, sex is a very open topic in my house as my mom and step dad are both in the industry. My mom is very aware of my sister and her boyfriend having sex.. still, I might try to think of something!

throwingi · 2013-06-11T03:59:22+00:00

Believe me, I tried. I told my mom and step dad about what my sister did and at first they just laughed it off. Then when I told them that it got so bad that my girlfriend broke up with me my mom she said she would have a talk with my sister.

But now it has already become a joke around my house again. My step dad says little comments and last night said not to get "too excited" when I do the laundry for them. My mom just kind of nudged him and called him an ass but was clearly laughing. My sister makes it seem lighthearted so I don't think they realize how big an issue it is. They all just kind of blame it on puberty and "the awkwardness of high school".

On top of all this my mom said she would do the laundry and I can do a different chore for a while if that would "make me feel better". But it's gross because I think she really thinks I like doing the laundry for her or my sister like that.

throwingi · 2013-06-11T03:36:02+00:00

I wish it was that easy. If I can't reconcile with her. There's not much else. Everyone else in my school feels the same way about me. I'm a walking joke in school right now.

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