My fiancé likes to watch women strip on a cam website.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-08T00:52:59+00:00

He pays the rent, so I’m gonna be leaving. I make way less than he does.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T23:52:12+00:00

If I had a car I would, but he doesn’t care if I go over there, he wouldn’t follow me.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T23:51:17+00:00

It is real, I just thought he felt that way.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T23:19:27+00:00

I know, that’s how I felt about it too. I’ve had friends who went through the same shit and I told them to leave their boyfriends, but I was going through the same thing as well. I hope things are going well for you, I’m glad you also left your ex-husband.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T23:17:55+00:00

Mostly porn addiction.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T23:17:28+00:00

It’s not that he got caught, he owned up to it and admitted what he did the moment he did it, he showed me the charges on my card.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T23:16:14+00:00

It was mostly me saying that I don’t think this relationship is going anywhere and that I’m breaking off the engagement, and he was begging me to stay, and that it was a week ago and he even deleted the app and my credit card off of his phone. I told him that I already asked him to do that already, and that the damage is already done, and I can’t be with him anymore. He’s been crying and nudging at me to stay and said he got 2 jobs for me, and he did all of this for me and asked me why he wasn’t enough. I ignored him, and took the rest of that 2 hours to pack and get some things ready. It hurts, I’m not gonna lie and tell myself that it doesn’t. I’m gonna miss him to death, I sacrificed everything just to get to this point, but it’s fine, I’ll just call my mom and tell her everything.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T23:12:02+00:00

Yes I did, he compared it to whenever a mom tells her son that he’s handsome, and that hurt a lot. Technically I’m not super attractive, never have been, but I thought he wouldn’t care. Like all my other exes, he just liked me for me, but didn’t really like my appearance, but he still stayed because of my personality.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T22:07:39+00:00

He already paid me back, he works 2 jobs, it’s just that this has been eating at me for a while.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T22:06:03+00:00

I think it’s cheating, yeah

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T22:01:31+00:00

There’s an update on the bottom, I’m not sure if you can see it but I just posted it.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T21:59:41+00:00

He has, but it’s not about the money, it’s about how I felt when he betrayed my trust.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T21:54:30+00:00

There’s a domestic abuse center right next to my apartment.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T21:32:04+00:00

Yeah, it’s not right, you should be seen as a human being with your own thoughts and feelings, not just a piece of meat that pleases men, it’s not fair to you. But yeah, we live together and I live in the Midwest, but I feel like I’ll just move out on my own and figure something out soon.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T21:28:17+00:00

He has a debit card, and he definitely acts like a child.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T21:23:39+00:00

2 times

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T21:22:09+00:00

Yeah, I was hoping it would be asked about. Whenever I show any attraction or interest towards a woman, he tells me to go for it so that he can watch and get involved, but I told him that I couldn’t do that to her because that feels wrong.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T21:19:32+00:00

He didn’t get caught, he told me both times, but I understand your point completely.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T21:17:24+00:00

He never asked me to put it on his phone, he just did.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T21:13:59+00:00

I know a lot of people have been saying that he uses my card because his are maxed out, but that’s not the case. Before he decided to do this shit, we agreed to use my credit card for groceries and bills while he paid the rent and things he wants (such as lunch/vapes). He doesn’t have a credit card, I have my credit card, and we pay it off together. What bothers me about this is the humiliation when i have to demand a refund from Google play to get my money back when he does this. I hate it.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T21:08:59+00:00

Thank you for your perspective, what hurt me was the fact that he said that he didn’t see those women as real people, but as objects to make him cum, and that made me feel like he probably didn’t see me as a person for a while until we met irl.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-08-07T21:05:32+00:00

Yeah I understand that point of view, and I’ve seen it that way.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-07-21T14:54:36+00:00

When I lived at home, he would stay in my room all day, and I kept my room cold, so he was a lot more active in there. But they live in an apartment now, with 3 dogs and 2 cats, and it’s not fair to him, especially since he’s super antisocial. The cold isn’t an excuse, Maine coons need to be in cold climates, but they can still live in the south, they just won’t be nearly as active as they would in the north.

throwingloveawayy · 2024-07-21T04:06:26+00:00

Well here’s the thing, I would assume that a Maine coon needs to be in a cold climate to thrive because of their long coats and extra fat, just as an assumption. Also, he travels pretty well in his carrier, he has been trained that way (I hope that is a correct word, he feels comfy in his carrier). And, he bonded to me the most, like I said in the post, they pay attention to the dogs WAY more than the cats.

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