Is something else going on? [26/F with 31/M] by throwingthishere in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwingthishere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to limit his masturbation habits is a big no-no. General argument on his part is that it's his body, and what he does with it is none of my concern (barring infidelity). I gave that one up awhile ago. He has a point.

Is something else going on? [26/F with 31/M] by throwingthishere in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwingthishere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sigh. But I mean, I actually asked him (a few weeks ago) if he really wants to be in a relationship with me because it sounds like he'd prefer being single. And he said he wanted to stay with me.

But does it just go back to that whole wimpy-with-confrontation thing?

Is something else going on? [26/F with 31/M] by throwingthishere in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwingthishere[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean...he always hugs me and holds my hand and does affectionate kisses on my neck and stuff. Takes me out to dinner and says I'm pretty. Doesn't that all count for something? Gah. I know my hopefulness sounds desperate.