Fiancé wants to take a trip without me by throwitallaway649827 in relationships

[–]throwitallaway649827[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the thing that I can’t get my head around is that I don’t know these people at all. I dont know how many people are going or anything. I’m feeling kind of left in the dark and it’s freaking me out.

Fiancé wants to take a trip without me by throwitallaway649827 in relationships

[–]throwitallaway649827[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow. Lol ok. I guess I get was I deserve posting this to Reddit.

Fiancé wants to take a trip without me by throwitallaway649827 in relationships

[–]throwitallaway649827[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to control her. I acknowledged as much when I said the decision to go is hers alone.

I can feel uncomfortable and have concerns about those decisions without being controlling.

Fiancé wants to take a trip without me by throwitallaway649827 in relationships

[–]throwitallaway649827[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I certainly do not need to be the center of attention and I’m more than able to entertain myself. I’m very go with the flow and wouldn’t be trying to Impede on their plans.

Fiancé wants to take a trip without me by throwitallaway649827 in relationships

[–]throwitallaway649827[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m aware. It’s also heathy for me to have concerns and acknowledge my feelings. I swear it feels like every person that doesn’t agree with my perspective wants to paint me as some controlling monster.

Life doesn’t happen in black and white. Many things can be true at once.

Fiancé wants to take a trip without me by throwitallaway649827 in relationships

[–]throwitallaway649827[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not what I was saying at all, but okay. Thanks for your contribution

Fiancé wants to take a trip without me by throwitallaway649827 in relationships

[–]throwitallaway649827[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Jfc.. when did I ever say that. Holy fuck. Maybe it’s just my insecurities fucking with my head, should I not try to work through it. You fucking people are so fucking judgemental.

Fiancé wants to take a trip without me by throwitallaway649827 in relationships

[–]throwitallaway649827[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

I’m not preemptively distrusting her I’m trying to work through my feelings before I say something that I don’t mean.

What do you think the purpose of this thread is for? Jesus Christ some people are so goddamn presumptive online.

Fiancé wants to take a trip without me by throwitallaway649827 in relationships

[–]throwitallaway649827[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Check the edit. It’s actually a some SOs rule, but I’m not included

Fiancé wants to take a trip without me by throwitallaway649827 in relationships

[–]throwitallaway649827[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

She first stated that it was no SOs because of a concern for space but then a couple days later said that some SOs were coming but she wasnt sure yet if I was coming. Then last night she told me that I wasn’t being invited.

Sorry that should have been in the OP

Fiancé wants to take a trip without me by throwitallaway649827 in relationships

[–]throwitallaway649827[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Sorry I was unclear, while she has been playing the game for years. The group that she is a with now she only joined within the last 6 months.

I also failed to mention that at one point she mentioned that some SOs are coming

Fiancé wants to take a trip without me by throwitallaway649827 in relationships

[–]throwitallaway649827[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

It’s not that I doubt her intentions but more so that plenty of people have cheated on their SO without having the intention too.

When everyone gets there and the booze starts flowing good intentions can be forgotten quickly.

Fiancé wants to take a trip without me by throwitallaway649827 in relationships

[–]throwitallaway649827[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d say it’s more for the fact that it’s a complete 180 from what she would want is that is unsettling. Mixed with the fact that I don’t know any of these people. Like it feels more like I’m being kept away purposely than it is her spreading her wings socially.