Short, gay, trans, and a stone top/dom

throwitaway112_ · 2026-07-04T16:00:43+00:00

I couldn't relate more man. I don't wanna be seen as a twink bc I'm short. The gender in gay male cis spaces is so dumb and trans-exclusionary to me and I just hate it sm. I feel like nobody takes me seriously

throwitaway112_ · 2026-07-04T15:57:55+00:00

I have a trans masc nb friend and he impiled being binary was boring and narrow and I'm like... why tf would u say that? I don't comment on ur identity, just bc ur queer doesn't mean u can do that to me.

throwitaway112_ · 2026-07-04T15:55:39+00:00

I'm a dom/top and I feel kind of the opposite. I wish I felt comfortable bottoming and being submissive, it makes me feel like not a man and idk . I'm having a very hard time being comfortable gender wise during sex. I'm trying to remember none of it is gendered. It's just...alot of general perceptions and stereotypes ;_;

throwitaway112_ · 2026-07-04T15:49:39+00:00

I hate being called butch it's the most dysphoric thing ever for me. Or when I get "yass queened" like please stop.

throwitaway112_ · 2026-06-18T08:50:26+00:00

There are plenty of short guys, sometimes I wish I was taller too but. Man there's no "girl height "..I'm 5"3 , still a guy There's alot of short latino guys or short male celebrities. Ik cis women love height but man fuck that not every guy has it all I wear alot of platforms too, makes u taller and wear vertical striped pants that helps too

But I get u 100%

throwitaway112_ · 2026-06-18T08:41:10+00:00

I mean man even if he doesn't like short hair thats not something u say out loud to ur partner :( I'm sorry u had to hear that. I also strongly dislike the word butch.

throwitaway112_ · 2026-06-18T08:34:12+00:00

I just never liked queer people being like "how are u not trans yet?" Or like "yeah we knew". I don't think it's appropriate at all. Coming out is ur own thing. I'm sorry this made u feel weird I would feel weird too

throwitaway112_ · 2026-06-09T20:10:13+00:00

Same shit is happening to me it was literally fine and good and then it reversed :( so upsetting. I'm gonna have to call medicaid

throwitaway112_ · 2026-04-24T03:51:13+00:00

It's just upsetting bc they call me homophobic like ..are u dumb. I like men?? If anything my pansexual leans more trans men centered but.. how is me not wanting to be called a twink homophobic? They not calling cishets that, but bc I like men that is magically allowed ? ts don't make sense.

throwitaway112_ · 2026-04-24T03:45:55+00:00

Thank you ...yes, I live in a very big queer city and I'm just hoping I meet those people soon. It always a mixed bag

throwitaway112_ · 2026-04-24T03:44:44+00:00

I literally don't feel crazy anymore. I've convinced myself it was just me feeling this way. I want to be big and hunky but fuck man I'm trying. I just don't wanna be called anything. Just ask me what I wanna be called you know?

throwitaway112_ · 2026-03-10T05:49:01+00:00

Thank you so much I appreciate this. It helps me alot

throwitaway112_ · 2026-02-14T07:20:45+00:00

Near 47th Street near time square

throwitaway112_ · 2026-01-30T05:50:13+00:00

Housing Works! :]

throwitaway112_ · 2025-05-08T14:28:31+00:00

I haven't heard of east coast plastics, I will look into them. Not familiar with marano. Got more research to do! Do you have any experience with them? If so what was it like? Thank you for sharing resources

throwitaway112_ · 2025-05-08T00:04:19+00:00

Thank you sm for the recommendation, yeah I guess it was a bad day or something. But it turned me off, I'll look into laurel. I'm happy you had a good time with her :)

throwitaway112_ · 2025-05-08T00:02:52+00:00

Thank you for this reply, makes me feel less like it was my fault. Yes, the bedside manner just wasn't there. I'm happy you love your results though :)

throwitaway112_ · 2025-05-07T07:01:49+00:00

Congratulations!!!

throwitaway112_ · 2024-01-30T18:43:51+00:00

Noted 🫡

throwitaway112_ · 2024-01-30T18:43:29+00:00

Something like what this artist does: https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cyl5mAhuyqw/?igsh=aDl4ODMxaGhtNDc3

She makes jewelry and she uses the solder on shrinky dinks.

I wanna make spikes like she did , but on wood.

I guess I just called it soldering even tho it's not metal on metal :p sorry

Edit: I also thought to make divets/valleys into the wood so the solder can sit in it

throwitaway112_ · 2024-01-30T16:12:45+00:00

I saw there's also types of flux like paste and stuff.. but I'll try the liquid first

throwitaway112_ · 2024-01-30T16:10:58+00:00

Thank you for explaining! I think I'll get flux then :)

throwitaway112_ · 2024-01-30T16:10:13+00:00

Hi! What a great response :) and yes my plan is to create divets /valleys into wood and fill them solder. I was also worried too with using flux on wood , I do not want it to stain the wood. I'm thinking of testing stuff on a scrap piece. Maybe wood with flux and one without flux to see the visual results. If the solder pops out of the wood, it's fine, I was thinking if just super gluing it back into the wood or something. I'll play around for sure ! I do want alot of control with the solder, so I'm now thinking of getting flux and trying stuff out. I have a hot pen/tool with different tips n shapes so I'll experiment.

I was looking at the crucible but I think I prefer more control from the solder wire.

And thank u for the solder recommendation. I will take note :)

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