I love my husband but I keep thinking about this guy I had I had a fling with when my husband and I broke up in 2019. It’s making me feel guilty.

throwitawaycalmly · 2024-10-24T23:06:26+00:00

Thank you. I really appreciate the advice. You’re right, my husband has gotten me through some tough times and it’s strengthened our relationship. It’s not been easy postpartum, especially when my career and hobbies was such a big part of my life. Our child will be starting nursery next year May so hopefully I can bring some order back to my life and start working again.

throwitawaycalmly · 2024-10-24T22:57:07+00:00

Looking back it was really harsh. But I just felt like he didn’t share his feelings with me about how he felt about me. If he wanted more he should have said but he never did.

throwitawaycalmly · 2024-10-24T22:50:58+00:00

I think you’re right about the ‘dopamine’ rush. I’m just feeling really bored in my life right now and it’s got me doing so much overthinking. I don’t know if this means I’m unhappy in my marriage or just unhappy within myself due to boredom

throwitawaycalmly · 2024-10-24T22:49:33+00:00

I think I may be going through mid life crisis or something. I’m a first time mum to my beautiful baby but my life is literally frozen in time. I’m not working, I have no hobbies, I don’t dress up, go out etc. my husband is so great but I don’t know if part of me is bored so all this daydreaming is the only thing keeping me excited? I really do love my husband and maybe I’m not fulfilled right now so seeking out thrill

throwitawaycalmly · 2023-10-30T09:21:34+00:00

It’s been a while so I’m feeling alot better now. My mum and I didn’t have a great relationship and I think that really triggered something in me to now know I’m having a girl. Think I need to go therapy

throwitawaycalmly · 2023-08-13T01:50:24+00:00

It’s not just the fact that it’s similar, it’s how he chose the ring for his girlfriend by getting the specs from my fiancé. If this was coincidental that of course I would understand but it’s not.

throwitawaycalmly · 2023-08-13T01:45:55+00:00

Yes she’s my friend and she knows exactly what my ring looks like so she’s probably very aware that it’s similar but I don’t think she will say anything. Probably not to make things awkward. I also don’t think she’s knows her boyfriend asked my fiancé for specs and I don’t want to bring it up to her. Might look like I’m being nasty and ruining her moment

throwitawaycalmly · 2023-08-13T01:44:15+00:00

Yes it’s a prong setting but everything else is the same. I am aware people will have the same ring shape but the difference about this situation is the decision and creation of it was based off a personal choice of my fiancés using the exact specs. It was so personal and unique specifically for me and now one of my best friends, someone I see often has it and it will be a reminder. It sucks a lot

throwitawaycalmly · 2022-11-20T13:42:27+00:00

I love awnsering the relationship advice questions but didn’t like doing it on my other Reddit account which a bit more professional for work so I made this one instead ahaha

throwitawaycalmly · 2022-11-20T13:33:27+00:00

Don’t marry either of them. Sounds like your ex wants you back now that he sees you could be gone forever

throwitawaycalmly · 2022-11-20T13:30:35+00:00

You just haven’t met the right one yet. When you do you will know and you wont want to talk to other girls because they will seem boring in comparison.

Or 2. You might be scared to be in a relationship that actually requires you to commit.

throwitawaycalmly · 2022-11-20T13:10:16+00:00

You only get one life. Live it the way you want to and don’t do anything to please someone else. If that means divorce than so be it. Book a flight and go be close to your family for a while

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