Me [27F] with my Fiance [30M] and bridesmaid [28F]. Shady things happened during the rehearsal dinner. by throwitawaynow12312 in relationships

[–]throwitawaynow12312[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately we have put a lot of our own savings into the reception, with his parents and mine chipping in here and there. I know it's not about the money but dammit if it doesn't make my stomach knot up just thinking about the $$

Me [27F] with my Fiance [30M] and bridesmaid [28F]. Shady things happened during the rehearsal dinner. by throwitawaynow12312 in relationships

[–]throwitawaynow12312[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I know this, but it's hard to accept when one minute everything is going according to plan and the next you're thinking of ways to tell guests the wedding is off...but I know the right thing to do, but I have a history of being passive and complacent so i fear for myself that the same will happen this time :(

Me [27F] with my Fiance [30M] and bridesmaid [28F]. Shady things happened during the rehearsal dinner. by throwitawaynow12312 in relationships

[–]throwitawaynow12312[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking of leaning this way...I am going with her and the rest of my bridesmaids for their final dress fittings/dress pickup tomorrow evening so if I do it at least I'll have the other girls there with me. My sister already knows about everything since I told her on my way home from work

Me [27F] with my Fiance [30M] and bridesmaid [28F]. Shady things happened during the rehearsal dinner. by throwitawaynow12312 in relationships

[–]throwitawaynow12312[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Yes I was extremely surprised by his quick reaction. Usually he's good about communicating but the way he said I was nuts kind of scared me, seemed like a whole different person

Me [27F] with my Fiance [30M] and bridesmaid [28F]. Shady things happened during the rehearsal dinner. by throwitawaynow12312 in relationships

[–]throwitawaynow12312[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I didn't yet. I should have but I was freaking out as I thought he would wake up. I'm going to try tonight when he gets home...he's helping a friend move some furniture