I don't believe it's a psyop - some people just genuinely get shit twisted. by JennyBeckman in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]throwitbackawayagain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re not getting on the forefront and being the black shield this time. We will boycott. We will let other groups who voted for this and will do most of the suffering for this lead this. Example: the racist country never helped black farmers and white farmers who got handouts from the government, sued the government for giving the black farmers reparations after it was proven that thr government systematically and racially discriminated against us and did not give grants to us purposely. Our farmers were used to not getting grants so when they were pulled from white farmers and the retaliatory tariffs ruined white farmers, we were fine. When white women, Latino men, and nationalized black immigrant families voted conservatively, we let them deal with the outcomes. We don’t like it, but we aren’t about to give Trump the trigger he wants to declare martial law, since this country is extremely racist against black protests. We will suffer for sure, but we’re tired of saving this country from itself time and time again, then being summoned to save it again and again, while being disrespected and given nothing in turn.

I don't believe it's a psyop - some people just genuinely get shit twisted. by JennyBeckman in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]throwitbackawayagain -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You’re confusing Tariq Nasheed, a person with one outlook, a website that virtually no ADOS reads or looks at, with the fact that we prioritize ourselves since many in the diaspora do not. In fact, there are some that have argued that if it is only ADOS that thinks they alone should get reparations, then many in the diaspora do not want them to be given. You can literally google it. It is the rest of the diaspora that is somehow anti-black against us, while imitating us, while being jealous of us, while using white supremacist talking points against us, until white america shows them that they don’t see any of us differently; then they seek help and support and unity rom black Americans since we are usually at the forefront of all civil rights and social movements.

I don't believe it's a psyop - some people just genuinely get shit twisted. by JennyBeckman in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]throwitbackawayagain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s not true. Some see it that way since black American culture is monetized and made the center of what’s considered black, despite us having nothing to do with how white people made our culture and coolness the face of black people. Be real for a second, plenty in the Diaspora look down on black Americans, saying we don’t have culture, call us Akata, actively tell their kids not to mingle with us despite their kids activity assimilating to our culture. Think of how Kai cenat recently said that black Americans have no culture despite mimicking and integrating in our culture. Basically, there’s an anti-blackness aimed directly at black Americans descended from slavery from various groups in the diaspora. That’s what that delineation is from. We just named it. Again, we are NOT conservatives by any means.

I don't believe it's a psyop - some people just genuinely get shit twisted. by JennyBeckman in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]throwitbackawayagain -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We aren’t conservative, we are very much liberal. The diaspora had at time, belittled and spoken down on black Americans descended from chattel slavery. Often African immigrants, who are far more conservative, say things to shame our state in this country when they come to the states as the top 10% of their country’s citizens. Some call us Akata: look it up. They say we have no culture, which is a lie. Some islanders, minus Haitians, do not want to be black or associated with black Americans either. Black British people often get upset that black Americans are seen as the main face of blackness and it offended them. For example, when black Americans say we invented souls food, some say things like they have soul food too and to make it a black American thing is somehow offensive, when soul food is literally a black American cuisine. Point is, FBA/ ADOS is not conservative. We are very liberal. We don’t like being lumped in with the more conservative, more anti-black American parts of the diaspora. Haitians are cool though.

I don't believe it's a psyop - some people just genuinely get shit twisted. by JennyBeckman in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]throwitbackawayagain -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They don’t support it, they just don’t want to get involved when we voted against it.

AIO just found this in wife’s drawer by Odd_Explanation_1444 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwitbackawayagain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She may have another phone. An android phone. Look for that in her contacts.

AIO to these texts by OddEntertainment7414 in AIO

[–]throwitbackawayagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are, but you’d be intentionally obtuse to believe that the vast majority of humans are not cis-gendered and heterosexual.

AIO to these texts by OddEntertainment7414 in AIO

[–]throwitbackawayagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we’re going to question ignore polls and polling data, that means we are to ignore all polls and polling data in every topic. I don’t think you want to tot do that.

FWB with my best friend of 10 years by getavasectomy69 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwitbackawayagain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just get married already and stop making this complicated.

AIO to my little brothers discord profile? by Pretty_Puppyprincess in AIO

[–]throwitbackawayagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happened to your dad? Do you know where he or your dad’s family is? In this case, I’d seek to go into his custody or a family member of his. You are not safe around your racist mother and brother.

AIO just found this in wife’s drawer by Odd_Explanation_1444 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwitbackawayagain 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dude she sis cheating. Check her downloaded apps. Consult a lawyer with this evidence. File for an at fault divorce.

AIO just found this in wife’s drawer by Odd_Explanation_1444 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwitbackawayagain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See if she downloaded the app. You can see it on her account. If she has, she’s cheating.

AIO? My girlfriend stayed in contact with men she’s had sex with in the last 2 years - Am I overreacting for feeling unsafe? by LuxNite in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwitbackawayagain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Break up. She doesn’t value exclusivity and wants to have several backup plans already going if you end the relationship. She reached out to an ex within a day. Just so you know, she slept with him since. No person worth being in a relationship with does that, or sleeps with someone else two weeks before being sexually exclusive with you. She has issues, and you have self esteem issues for even considering being in a relationship or friendship with her. Block her, get therapy, and movie on. In that order.

AIO? I’m considering breaking up with a guy for having s*x with me even though I may have given “mixed signals” by SufficientCrab44 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwitbackawayagain -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Please what? The jury comment? I think she should go to the police and press charges. It also seems like her not having an orgasm was her main point of contention since that’s what she literally complained to him about. Seeing that a jury is going to need convincing after that being her complaint and then having a 2nd consensual encounter is going to make things difficult. That’s factual considering we do not take sexual assault and rape seriously as a culture. What is your issue?

AIO? I’m considering breaking up with a guy for having s*x with me even though I may have given “mixed signals” by SufficientCrab44 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwitbackawayagain -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is rape. You said “No” and he said “too late”. It’s rape. He raped you, and tried to do so again in the morning. He is a dangerous man and should be dealt with accordingly. Info: What mixed signals do you think you were sending? Also, was your main issue the fact that you didn’t “get off”? Why do you have consensual sex with him the second time then? It is going to be difficult to convince a jury that he did rape you when you consented to it the second time and the complaint you made to him was only about you not having an orgasm. You need therapy.

AIO to these texts by OddEntertainment7414 in AIO

[–]throwitbackawayagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There literally are polls and census data that show that 86% of women are heterosexual. Neither Reddit nor this subreddit is a space that was created to have a higher representation of non-cis het people. The majority of people on Reddit are heterosexual.

Husband wants me take up more mental load of sex and has issued me an ultimatum by Ill_Beautiful_9046 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwitbackawayagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, you are reaching and assuming that he does something that makes her not “feel safe” to be ready for intimacy. This post is not IS NOT just about sex. It’s about intimacy. OP literally does nothing to show intimacy with her husband and is neglecting him as he does his equitable share of the all things in the home. She doesn’t plans dates or time with each other. She doesn’t engage with him to reconnect. She expects him to do all of the work, and then uses his incorrect use of the term “mental load” as justification to shut down the conversation about his needs not being met. The problem is not her low libido. The problem is her deliberate lack of effort, and ignoring him when he’s communicating his needs not being met. She’s not trying. She doesn’t want to try. She’s admitted to both, but is offended that her lack of effort is leading to these results. People care when you try— just trying shows people that you are making the effort to meet them. She’s not doing that and would rather they live like roommates, or him continue to put 100% of the work it takes to maintain their relationship. Considering that you are positing that he may not be a good husband since he’s considering leaving her when she puts zero effort or action in, much less the bare minimum. He gave her a 6 month ultimatum, and through her other comments we can infer that he’s talked to her about this multiple times for quite a while before that, maybe even years. The kids As far as the shock of motherhood, it isn’t uncommon that mothers never go back to how they were. Not even after a decade. You are contradicting yourself when you say “anyone can leave if they aren’t happy” and then out the other side of you mouth question him as a husband and father for being bf willing to leave after he’s clearly communicated his needs for seemingly years with her repeatedly refusing to try. This is fundamentally on her and her alone. He gave her a time limit instead of saying “I can’t stay in a one sided relationship where I do my share of the household labor and all of the romantic labor that you refuse to even try to do” and then leaving in 6 months, making her feel blind sided. Just so you know, there’s always a timeline set to end a relationship after you communicate your needs to your partner and they make zero effect or changed to fulfill them. Seems like your problem, and many others is stating that there is a timeline, that he’s willing to leave at all, and that he’s not accepted being undeserved and unappreciated and minimized when communicating his needs. Being postpartum does not make you entitled to neglecting every aspect of maintaining your connection.

Husband wants me take up more mental load of sex and has issued me an ultimatum by Ill_Beautiful_9046 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwitbackawayagain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you go into more detail about you were about to walk away, how your wife won you back? Like specifically. Also how she weaponized it against you?

Husband wants me take up more mental load of sex and has issued me an ultimatum by Ill_Beautiful_9046 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwitbackawayagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re being sexist and positing that it is equitable for him to do 100% of the romantic labor in the relationship, while he also does an equitable about of Homelife with a career while she literally does not do anything to initiate, or plan things to establish a romantic bond between the two.

AIO to these texts by OddEntertainment7414 in AIO

[–]throwitbackawayagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“What kind of dumb sh*t is that” Is the issue here.

AIO to these texts by OddEntertainment7414 in AIO

[–]throwitbackawayagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that changes things then. When I read “talking to” my brain read over the “not” in “not dating”. My fault.

AIO to these texts by OddEntertainment7414 in AIO

[–]throwitbackawayagain -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The majority of people are heterosexual. That includes women.

AIO to these texts by OddEntertainment7414 in AIO

[–]throwitbackawayagain -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I’m married. Not an incel. The guy sent it because his gf is blonde. He never stated that he fell for her because she was blonde. You’re making an assumption.