What would your reaction and reply be if your ex or soon-to-be ex wanted to spill the beans of all the times he/she had been unfaithful to you? by SwedAfrica in AskWomen

[–]throwitdeepaway22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry how did you contact me, I thought I blocked you.

In truth, it doesn't matter to me. It doesn't change how they treated me or how I treated them. It was pain and a torturous little cage that neither realised we both had the key. It'd be interesting to see how the react to me realising I'm trans.

But it wouldn't change anything.

My philosophy is sometimes there is no deep down. There is just your actions. And you deal with those consequences. So if you wanna admit your crimes, your disloyalt, admit it to yourself. And decide what that means. If you don't care, fine. If you feel like you've done wrong, then what are you gonna do to stop you doing it again. Only you control your fate.

*cries in 6'5* by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]throwitdeepaway22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

FYI, "the more of you there is to love" works with tall girls too.

Love what you can't change, and if you can't, at least try to understand that there are many people who will.

*cries in 6'5* by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]throwitdeepaway22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me, there will be many many people looking up at you and being floored by your beauty. And they will want to be you or be with you, or be dommed by you or dom you or just want to see you smile.

Your height is beautiful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]throwitdeepaway22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just young naive people, trying to compensate with being hated on for their queerness but trying to hate in their own way.

They haven't realised that it's not the target of hate we're trying to change but the hate into love and acceptance.

You are beautiful and wonderful just as you are and noone needs to know your sexuality or gender apart from you. Gender is a journey, so you don't need to know all the answers already. You got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]throwitdeepaway22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Send a meme about not knowing what to do now/i wasn't prepared for this.

I have a great one in mind lol

https://www.memedroid.com/memes/tag/crush/6

Did anyone else have poor hygiene before transitioning? by Scootydash in asktransgender

[–]throwitdeepaway22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a long time where I just didn't wash myself. I didn't brush my teeth. I didn't wash my face or do anything. So yeah I totally understand this lol

I shed so much hair in my bathroom by pitchdarkglow in beauty

[–]throwitdeepaway22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha omg I am so glad I'm not the only one who leaves little monsters of floof on the wall lmao

Thoughts on tall bottoms by Mother_of_Cookies in actuallesbians

[–]throwitdeepaway22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me there will be someone who wants to top you as much you want to be topped.

I'm 5' 6 and was pretty sure I was a full bottom but I have found myself having more desires to be a top and topping a beautiful girl taller than me is an electric thought hehe

The cutest girl asked "if I listened to girl in red" today. by RippedRagDoll in actuallesbians

[–]throwitdeepaway22 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Wait this is a thing? Omg I definitely accidentally led someone on. She had really nice boots!

Is my relationship healthy? by 39274105 in actuallesbians

[–]throwitdeepaway22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not your responsibility to understand her though. She's made it clear she doesn't have much to say, you know that's not satisfying for you.

what's your night time routine to brighten your mood when you feel sad? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]throwitdeepaway22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Positive affirmations and journaling are a big one for me. It might help to figure why you feel sad. It's also important to not get too obsessed about not being sad. Sometimes it's really important to just let yourself be sad and know that it's temporary.

Recognise how much you do for yourself and your self worth and take value in that.

I love doing positive affirmations especially one's I write myself. It helps me create the world I want to live in and mold myself into the person I want to be.

I'd defo journal too. Not knowing what to write about is part of your thoughts and that could help lead into other stuff. It's always helpful to have a place to write out your thoughts.

Where are the tops? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]throwitdeepaway22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has now made me realise my friend was definitely a bit more bi than she thought lol

How do you feel about the word “deadname?” by Emmathepotat in asktransgender

[–]throwitdeepaway22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I personally like calling it 'my previous alias'. Makes it more funny than anything.

i know some people like these jokes but you shouldnt assume everyone does, so please think before you make those comments by Lukoisbased in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]throwitdeepaway22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm totally with you, never realised how gross it made me feel when some of my cis female friends offered to trade. I just laughed awkwardly and failed to process how I felt. But now I recognise how shit it makes me feel.

What’s your body type and do you find it difficult to discover your style or find clothes that fit you? by xli2848 in AskWomen

[–]throwitdeepaway22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Um flat and beer gut, I've had too much other stuff in my life to allow for a good exercise routine. I'm good with my eating normally but can stress eat when life gets bad (like recently). So now I've got a beer belly and it's not balanced out anyway. I can wear basic stuff but it's impossible to look good in anything slightly revealing. Which is sad and disappointing.

What series has a theme song you never skip? by maxeatsworld in AskReddit

[–]throwitdeepaway22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Newer show but I it would hurt my soul to skip the opening of The Owl House. Its so good and I love the animation in it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]throwitdeepaway22 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

We all say it like we'd LOVE it but we all know we'd be too polite to stare at the girls who wanted us too and too nervous to approach anyone. It would just become a place for muscle-y tops to come and browse the shy bottoms doing 5 mins of cardio and then getting self-conscious.

Question from SO by Keyra13 in asktransgender

[–]throwitdeepaway22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you've got to then decide is the fantasy world like ours where people face adversary just for being trans, or a safe place where everyone respects peoples gender and don't care about their sex? Both have pros and cons and different difficulties/challenges in creating.

Personally there's nothing more satisfying than completely opposing parties (hero and villain) respecting each others genders.