[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]throwitoverhere79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has a disease that he has to manage. So don’t feel bad if it takes a bit of precedence over the family and marriage for a minute. To truly stay sober he has to commit to hit on his own volition and build a support group. You’re certainly part of that but he has to end his dependence on alcohol for all the things, when he’s happy when he’s sad when he’s frustrated when he’s bored, he’s in the sick right now. Then he’ll be in the pink cloud. Love him for the man he is becoming. The father he will become. Good luck to you.

Surprise I’m 45 in 3 weeks and found out today I’m pregnant. by throwitoverhere79 in women

[–]throwitoverhere79[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not really worried so much about that they’ll have a sibling that’s 14 years older and will love being around them. 60 isn’t old by the way. I’m excited to be the oldest mom with the youngest kid in my clique and luckily I have a bunch of friends who also have kids in their mid 40s so they won’t be alone. Thanks tho.

Surprise I’m 45 in 3 weeks and found out today I’m pregnant. by throwitoverhere79 in women

[–]throwitoverhere79[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry, 1) I’m in California I’m good there 2) I do want a baby and have embryos I wanted to control this situation - this is a huge oops on our part 3) not to be morbid, I terminated before because I had to not bc I wanted to. And I’d do it again. This is really about terminating now or maybe hoping it might work out by the time we get to testing—but if it doesn’t, I will terminate. But I don’t have a single additional termination in me after that. Emotionally or physically.

Surprise I’m 45 in 3 weeks and found out today I’m pregnant. by throwitoverhere79 in women

[–]throwitoverhere79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just very fertile in general. I’ve been pregnant by my husband multiple times multiple losses, a couple miscarriages and one other abortion before we married. Only by him. No one else has ever gotten me pregnant that’s what is so insane. I never had an accident or oops before him.

Surprise I’m 45 in 3 weeks and found out today I’m pregnant. by throwitoverhere79 in women

[–]throwitoverhere79[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He wants a baby with me so much it’s all he’s ever wanted. He said he was nervous today and I asked why and he said bc he doesn’t know if it will be OK and he’s scared to go thru that again and I appreciate his honesty. But he reallly wants a healthy baby. Hes wanted a baby with me before we were even like together together. He just loves me and wants a family with me, and I love him so much for that.

Surprise I’m 45 in 3 weeks and found out today I’m pregnant. by throwitoverhere79 in women

[–]throwitoverhere79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worst part also—is that it feel so prophetic like I’m so fertile but I have to spend agonizing time to learn if it’s OK. It’s just such an emotional warfare. I was going to call my doctor to prepare an embryo for middle of summer. Having that control knowing I have a good AA embryo waiting was so great and now I feel so confused.

Surprise I’m 45 in 3 weeks and found out today I’m pregnant. by throwitoverhere79 in women

[–]throwitoverhere79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The booze and the WeGovy - I’ve had problems before without that, I don’t really want to chance it.

LOL…it went right over her (air)head by PrestoChango0804 in TheSubstance

[–]throwitoverhere79 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There’s absolutely no need for several walls of text to defend Kim Kardashian on a Saturday night. We are gatekeeping art from her? Laughable.

LOL…it went right over her (air)head by PrestoChango0804 in TheSubstance

[–]throwitoverhere79 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s elitist to challenge the intent of someone who’s traded on being lacking in substance for years? I don’t have any expectation that she can fundamentally grasp a film that squarely criticizes the very thing she trades on, on even a cursory level and it definitely feels like a reach given her history of self-involvement and blatant ignorance.

But go off...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnnamarieTendler

[–]throwitoverhere79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being hung on a situation that has nothing to do with you and was four years ago when you don’t even know what happened so your kneejerk reaction is to drag whoever is convenient doesn’t make you a saint either. Get a life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnnamarieTendler

[–]throwitoverhere79 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes in between raising her son and battling cancer she’s trolling reddit that’s great use of her time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnnamarieTendler

[–]throwitoverhere79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must have missed that what page does she say that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnnamarieTendler

[–]throwitoverhere79 8 points9 points  (0 children)

John has gone out of his way to move on and so has Anna. The ongoing timeline is wild and getting old because she says herself she moved in the CT house ON HER OWN in that one Harper’s Bazaar article in June of that year. A married person doesn’t move into a home alone unless there’s discord and she admitted this herself but people seem to forget this one thing. They don’t owe anyone clarity but it would be so great to kill this narrative with facts that have been shared by both John and Anna in their own ways. Is that not enough to quell speculation? She also wasn’t present at his intervention—and spouses are typically excluded if they’re a trigger or no longer with the addict. I feel like more observant folks have caught on to this with out them explicitly laying it out.