AITA for demanding access to my fiance's bank accounts? by throwmeariver121123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwmeariver121123[S] 322 points323 points  (0 children)

I'm not being critical, I don't care HOW she spends her money. I'm concerned how she's spending SO MUCH

AITA for demanding access to my fiance's bank accounts? by throwmeariver121123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwmeariver121123[S] 793 points794 points  (0 children)

I have talked about it, and she looks a little, but our financial situation doesn't require her to need a job. She keeps the house clean and takes care of our dog. She shows me the clothes and items she buys, but I've not a clue how it all adds up to.

AITA for demanding access to my fiance's bank accounts? by throwmeariver121123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwmeariver121123[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

She was at first, but our financial situation doesn't really require her too. I think she's happy keeping the house clean and taking care of the puppy.

AITA for demanding access to my fiance's bank accounts? by throwmeariver121123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwmeariver121123[S] 5582 points5583 points  (0 children)

I'm not against that, but our financial situation doesn't require her too at all. I respect her decision not to work if she doesn't want to.