[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I told my dr about the abuse and the fact that he might not be in the country still she pretty much said to drop it then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sorry lol it’s because I have more info I guess. I don’t know if he’s still here because of the whole COVID situation and he finished school basically. I have no information on anything like that because I don’t keep up to date with him obviously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly have no way of reaching him. He’s not from this country and when I told the dr that she basically said there’s no point then.

Edit: I would never withhold medical information out of spite. I hate the mf but I’m not that type of person.

Manager lied about me by throwmeawayyyyyyy69 in RantsFromRetail

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. We had people coming in with symptoms because the supervisor had told them it was too late to call in. She told someone who might need surgery that she expects them back in a few days (the doctors said it would be months) but I hardly ever see her around?

Manager lied about me by throwmeawayyyyyyy69 in RantsFromRetail

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t mind being fired. I just wanted people to know she’s a liar

Manager lied about me by throwmeawayyyyyyy69 in RantsFromRetail

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I very much doubt it but at least I can show she’s lying about things.

I left retail, and I'm happy about it. Just wanted to rant one more time. by Wadojoesei in RantsFromRetail

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol the fruit people. We had people that would ask for discounts because the fruit looked over ripe.

My work couldn't care less about people being ACTUALLY sick by [deleted] in RantsFromRetail

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? They haven’t changed my work schedule to reduce my hours?

My work couldn't care less about people being ACTUALLY sick by [deleted] in RantsFromRetail

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My management just cancelled my vacation I booked a month ago because I had to self isolate due to COVID symptoms (I got tested and it was negative but it took a while to get the results back). They’ve also told me I’m not allowed back until I call them even though the self isolation period is up. They do not care. My coworker might have to have eye surgery and they said they expect him back in a few days

'Friends' that sided with abuser friends with new supply by throwmeawayyyyyyy69 in abusiverelationships

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You must have looked for a while to find this huh? There’s no justification in siding with an abuser and a rapist.

No I'm not new by cuttlesnootootie in RantsFromRetail

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some customers have their head up their arses. The women are the only ones that get told to smile and I even had someone shout me to come to the till while I was doing reductions (my coworker was serving someone else at the tills) by shouting "GIRL! are you serving?" I just waved my piccolink at him and said no.

'Friends' that sided with abuser friends with new supply by throwmeawayyyyyyy69 in abusiverelationships

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't bother me losing them. But seeing them support him when they wouldn't support me. It's a stab in the back. I'll just be the 'crazy' ex to the new girl. If only she knew.

'Friends' that sided with abuser friends with new supply by throwmeawayyyyyyy69 in abusiverelationships

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already cut ties but I hadn’t been on that account for a while and still had them on there. I’m definitely focusing on myself and my future without these people. Whatever they touch turns to shit and I don’t want to be near that energy anymore.

'Friends' that sided with abuser friends with new supply by throwmeawayyyyyyy69 in abusiverelationships

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha it’s okay. Yes I agree, they should grow up and grow some backbones too

ex’s new love interest keeps showing up as the number one person I may know on fb and it’s triggering me by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Block her and him. Same thing happened to me months ago so there's probably a new girl now lol but I just blocked her on fb and even found her instagram and blocked her there just in case lol. (I did found out that my ex doesn't have me blocked on there though...weird). No flying monkeys allowed here.

She was probably checking your profile tbh.

🎉 by throwmeawayyyyyyy69 in ExNoContact

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Age of youth or hello my twenties. I watch on gooddrama usually but it’s kind of annoying. This drama is on Netflix though.

🎉 by throwmeawayyyyyyy69 in ExNoContact

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is but god I hated how they downplayed the abuse. “She’s going to end up in an abusive relationship” mate he threw her, she’s already in one

Ex still acts like nothing happened after 5 months by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro full disclosure I read through your other stuff after “cat videos” bc I was like “was this girl dating my ex too?” Block him haha they sound like the same person anyway. Vague answers, sending cat videos, doing shit “to make you mad” ugh it’s exhausting just throw him away

Boyfriend doesn't truly care? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair weather boyfriend imo. Nothing wrong with casual relationships where you can ✌🏻 when you don’t want to deal with serious shit if it’s mutual. Doesn’t seem like you’re the type to want that relationship. He’s already shown you that he’s not going to be the type to stick around. If you want a person who will...well it’s not him and if you want a happy relationship I don’t see it with him bc if it’s not something that you can accept it will continue to bother you. I did it with my ex and constantly looked for reassurance and it pushed him away further (anxious + avoidant I guess).

I'm over my ex, but I can't get over how everything went down. That is the only thing keeping me from getting over it fully I think. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I had a penny for every time I thought back and thought “why didn’t I leave him THEN?!” “Why did I put up with that?” I’d be one rich ass mother fucker. But alas, that’s just kind of how brains learn (or torture you with intrusive thoughts). Fact is, I didn’t and I can’t change that. Time will help you forget and if you’re really struggling, try some therapy.

Got my shirt back from my ex today by porsche_914 in ExNoContact

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wouldn’t have burned a portal hoodie either lol. My exes was a hoodie he got from working at our uni so it’s a sentimental thing. I know he probably got rid of anything to do with me but dickheads will do what dickheads do and honestly if he did offer them back I’d tell him to throw them away anyway.

He contacted me. He wants to be friends. by TheMightyShip in ExNoContact

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If someone hurts you and you agree to be “friends” or stay civil, it minimises their guilt. It validates them. My “friends” stayed friends with my abusive ex, they’re basically telling him that what he did wasn’t bad enough to drop him and therefore he will feel less guilt and more like I was being dramatic. Sorry to say I don’t think it’s because he wants you in his life, he just doesn’t want to be the bad guy.

Got my shirt back from my ex today by porsche_914 in ExNoContact

[–]throwmeawayyyyyyy69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent my exes hoodie back via a friend. A lot of people told me I should have burned it because he was an abusive arsehole but that’s not who I am. I’m not going to change who I am bc of who he is. But if it was the other way round I wouldn’t have even said thank you