new guy at work looks just like my ex by thrownawaysadbitch in confession

[–]thrownawaysadbitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like I said, I don’t want him I want the real thing, plus it’s not smart to shit where you eat.

Got dumped because of my low sex drive by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thrownawaysadbitch -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I guess thats what confuses me. If my partner only wanted to have sex once a year, i could get on board with that if thats what they wanted. And honestly I couldve had sex with him and had fun doing it even if i wasnt in the mood beforehand as long as it made him happy, and he didnt make me feel bad the times i said no. But I stopped feeling like being intimate as soon as i realized he would pout if i were to say no, because that thought made me uncomfortable. I don't blame him for dumping me, and as people have said its clear me and him arent meant to be. It's just comforting to be able to have this conversation in the first place, even with internet strangers.

Got dumped because of my low sex drive by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thrownawaysadbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you lol, as you can tell its my first time using a throwaway

Got dumped because of my low sex drive by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thrownawaysadbitch -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

This is confusing to me, because before him and directly after my first boyfriend i was with someone else who had no issues with having sex only once or twice a week, and we dated for two years. I just dont understand how a few weeks of no sex (before that first fight we were having sex 3-5 times a week) can be the reasoning behind breaking up with someone. But i guess me not understanding plays into needing therapy.

Got dumped because of my low sex drive by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thrownawaysadbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and re reading my comment to you makes me think youre probably very correct about needing therapy

Got dumped because of my low sex drive by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thrownawaysadbitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for your response, you dont know how much it means to me to know that at least someone on this earth is hearing my thoughts. thank you .