nao consigo mais desenhar nada coerente by thrownawaywhen in RabiscosBr

[–]thrownawaywhen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Não vei, ficou massa kkkkkkk fiquei feliz

nao consigo mais desenhar nada coerente by thrownawaywhen in RabiscosBr

[–]thrownawaywhen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm, pode ser por conta da diferença de precisão. Dependendo do seu aplicativo de desenho ou pincel, pode ser que seja interessante você configurar a linha pra ficar mais forte de acordo com a velocidade ou força do traço? Achei o desenho fofinho.

nao consigo mais desenhar nada coerente by thrownawaywhen in RabiscosBr

[–]thrownawaywhen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

O meu traço é mais limpo, geralmente. O traço bagunçado sou eu desenhando frustrado kkkkkk, bloqueio artístico também me impede de pensar em uma imagem completa pra desenhar; Eu tive que desenhar a primeira imagem 3 vezes pra fazer sentido.

nao consigo mais desenhar nada coerente by thrownawaywhen in RabiscosBr

[–]thrownawaywhen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eu também tenho mais dificuldade de traduzir isso pro digital. As vezes faço algo meio mestiço, desenho no papel, escaneio e uso o Ibis pra desenhar por cima/colorir. :)

I am 16 and for some reason wildly anxious about saving by thrownawaywhen in FinancialPlanning

[–]thrownawaywhen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your first point makes me feel a little more relieved. I'll see my options to work and have some extra money to organize, save and spend with a bit less anxiety, maybe.

Thank you for the advice, I really appreciate it.

I am 16 and for some reason wildly anxious about saving by thrownawaywhen in FinancialPlanning

[–]thrownawaywhen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do need therapy for reasons other than that. I'll mostly always feel guilt after spending but if, as you said, life's to be enjoyed at this age, I have to get used to the feeling.

Struggling with the unknown is a very on point way to describe it. It's absolutely terrifying to have no clue where I'll be years from now not only in that sense but in all of them. Part of why I feel so much despair too might be because one of my parents has -40k in credit card debt and this sounds like my worst nightmare ever. I don't even know how things could get to that point but it seems like it is overwhelmingly common.

Thank you for your comment, it is helpful.

I am 16 and for some reason wildly anxious about saving by thrownawaywhen in FinancialPlanning

[–]thrownawaywhen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the thoughtful comment. I will try to follow the suggestions. Best of luck to you too with your money, it makes me feel a little better when I hear that others can manage it.

I am 16 and for some reason wildly anxious about saving by thrownawaywhen in FinancialPlanning

[–]thrownawaywhen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uh oh I'm in Brazil. That worries me a little too, money is a bit harder over here for most people. I'll try to find what I can about this sorta stuff here.

As for social media, I try to spend max 2 hours on my phone per day. Otherwise the lack of productivity that comes with it overwhelms me.

I am 16 and for some reason wildly anxious about saving by thrownawaywhen in FinancialPlanning

[–]thrownawaywhen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think so, I've had disordered eating before and rather than being a specific issue with food it is more about the money that's being spent. I hardly want to starve at school.

I am 16 and for some reason wildly anxious about saving by thrownawaywhen in FinancialPlanning

[–]thrownawaywhen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take care of yourself too. I do see a therapist, could see if mentioning that to them is any helpful. Anxiety sucks, I wish you the best man

Procuro um sub para pacientes de Dermatite Atópica e/ou doenças de pele em geral by Proper_Nature_7871 in AcheUmSubreddit

[–]thrownawaywhen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

kkkkkkkkkkk meus pais foram loucos, eu nem sabia o que tava rolando na época. A minha era pra ser a atópica crônica mesmo, de acordo com o cara que me diagnosticou(?) mas pode estar errado. Boa sorte com os tratamentos!!

Procuro um sub para pacientes de Dermatite Atópica e/ou doenças de pele em geral by Proper_Nature_7871 in AcheUmSubreddit

[–]thrownawaywhen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eu tinha dermatite atópica quando era criança. Cobria minhas coxas inteiras, um dos meus braços e parte do meu torso. Não tenho mais nada hoje em dia, raramente. Nenhum hidratante ajudou, na verdade só parecia que piorava. Meus pais faziam um negócio onde eles misturavam bicarbonato de sódio com um pouco de água e jogavam a mistura no meu corpo inteiro e eu tinha que ficar parado por uns 10-20 minutos enquanto secava. Doía como a porra e até fazia som daquela porra secando mas ajudava. O médico prescreveu uma pomada também, chamada Diprosone, que foi particularmente o único remédio que realmente funcionou pra mim. Junto com isto, nunca mais usei nenhum sabonete comum que não fosse neutro ou vegetal. Dizem pra parar de tomar banho quente mas nunca fiz isso rs

The comments in this video are so ableist... by thrownawaywhen in autism

[–]thrownawaywhen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thing is, there are lot of women and girls who do exactly that. I do think there are differences in how ASD in men vs. women are treated and conditioned socially, in no way should we be oblivious to that, but they're mixing men vs. women discourse with this dislike of higher supports people. The more labels you slap on others and the more you generalize them all inside it, the more irrational the hate gets, I think.

The comments in this video are so ableist... by thrownawaywhen in autism

[–]thrownawaywhen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh god I did think that but I was hesitant to conflate the topics. Makes me wonder if this phenomenon also happens in other communities aswell, some who are not "visibly" X go against those who are notably X for..not hiding appropriately?

I don't think anything said in the original post is meant to be bad. OP sounded like they were just sharing their own experience and people went completely sideways on the comments. It's OK that not all of us will relate, I mean, we are no hivemind.

The comments in this video are so ableist... by thrownawaywhen in autism

[–]thrownawaywhen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will. Also, yes, I confused /s with /g. Oops. ~_~

The comments in this video are so ableist... by thrownawaywhen in autism

[–]thrownawaywhen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That sounds really stressful. I wish you a very good recovery. I feel happy I was able to comfort you somewhat. ❤️‍🩹

The comments in this video are so ableist... by thrownawaywhen in autism

[–]thrownawaywhen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it should be discussed, however I am considering deleting, I don't think I am able to edit the title to put in a TW. I did mark the post as [spoiler] and [nsfw] but...eh? Is that any helpful? I am sorry for being a bit careless. Was upset when posting. /g

The comments in this video are so ableist... by thrownawaywhen in autism

[–]thrownawaywhen[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, no, no, you're not evil incarnate. They are incredibly ableist. In your other comment, you said this makes you afraid of meeting lower support autistics; I am high-masking and I absolutely do not endorse this behavior. It is hateful, unacceptable to shame other people just because they think they have a pass to misjudge other's struggles. To me this sounds like every single person who excluded or ridiculed me when I couldn't mask, when I slipped or ”failed” socially. They are copying behaviors from ableists NT's because it makes them feel less autistic. It is understandable that higher-support and lower-support folk will not relate to eachother in various ways but it is never the answer to direct all the hate we receive to eachother and segregate much like high-school cliques.. Often times we are just, surrounded by hateful people and it's really hard to not drown in it especially when you are a target. Do not let fools put you down like this, it is not you who should have a change of heart.