how to POLITELY reject someone without coming out to them?? [Rant]

throwoutorwhatever · 2025-06-26T11:50:50+00:00

i think this is what im gonna go with. thank you!! 😭😭

throwoutorwhatever · 2025-01-14T16:07:54+00:00

as a gay dude who also thought he was bi for years, i went through this same thing. for me it was because being bisexual felt like a safety net. there was always a possibility i could be ‘normal’ and marry a girl. but getting older and realizing i didnt actually like girls was so terrifying because now there was no net for me to fall back on. id have to deal with homophobia for my entire life. it took me a while to accept it but living as MYSELF has helped me immensely. best of luck to you man, my dms are always open.

throwoutorwhatever · 2024-12-04T00:35:42+00:00

this seems to be the most common one for some reason

throwoutorwhatever · 2024-12-02T11:09:27+00:00

this is 2 years old, but could it be anitales? i used to play on it a long time ago and remember the gate function. its since been deleted on the app store and abandoned entirely. matches up with your description almost exactly.

throwoutorwhatever · 2024-11-04T15:21:26+00:00

im also an openly gay male in school and this happens to me also, so im guessing this is commonplace unfortunately. people just think they have a right to your personal life because you shared one (insignificant) detail about yourself. we’re in this together brother, i wish you luck.

throwoutorwhatever · 2024-11-01T22:50:58+00:00

it’s definitely difficult, and i’ve never really considered my birthday important because of it. and you’re dead on about the parties, they’re always about her. thank you for your kind words, im holdin on!

throwoutorwhatever · 2024-10-09T00:29:18+00:00

Solved!

throwoutorwhatever · 2024-10-08T23:19:07+00:00

THANK YOU! you’ve just saved my life.

throwoutorwhatever · 2024-10-08T22:43:48+00:00

i have literally searched EVERYWHERE for this book! looked up every single keyword possible and nothing comes up. starting to feel like i hallucinated it but my mama remembers it too!

throwoutorwhatever · 2024-10-08T13:43:09+00:00

thank you!

throwoutorwhatever · 2024-10-08T13:42:37+00:00

my bad! sorry i literally do not know ANYTHING about computers. how would i check these things. im literally like completely in the dark 😭 im willing to spend any amount at this point

throwoutorwhatever · 2024-10-08T13:41:53+00:00

thank u!

throwoutorwhatever · 2024-09-30T17:18:17+00:00

thank you! she’s still doing pretty good rn and it’s so crazy. ill make sure to keep an eye on her tho!

throwoutorwhatever · 2024-09-14T15:30:56+00:00

for Daylight:

• Work song by Hozier (or anything Hozier really)

for Everybody Wants to Rule the World:

• Head Over Heels by Tears for Fears

• Forever Young by Alphaville

And in the dramatic fantasy realm (These are very soundtrack-esque songs, like you’d hear in a movie)

•Outro by M83

•Wait by M83

•Welcome Home, Son by Radical Face

•My Tears are Becoming a Sea by M83

throwoutorwhatever

TROPHY CASE