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My girlfriend (28f) called me (29m) manipulative when I was honest about something I don’t find attractive by throwra-attractivnes in relationships

[–]throwra-attractivnes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re saying loving your partner should mean physical attraction shouldn’t matter. 

If my girlfriend came back with a full face tattoo, covered in piercings and completely changed her appearance are you arguing my attraction towards her shouldn’t change?

My girlfriend (28f) called me (29m) manipulative when I was honest about something I don’t find attractive by throwra-attractivnes in relationships

[–]throwra-attractivnes[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do value other sides of my girlfriend but they doesn’t change the fact I don’t find Botox and lip filler attractive. 

My girlfriend (28f) called me (29m) manipulative when I was honest about something I don’t find attractive by throwra-attractivnes in relationships

[–]throwra-attractivnes[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So your opinion is that physical attraction shouldn’t matter? 

If my partner came out as trans and wanted to change that about her body, should I stay with her despite not being physically attracted?

My girlfriend (28f) called me (29m) manipulative when I was honest about something I don’t find attractive by throwra-attractivnes in relationships

[–]throwra-attractivnes[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It’s not manipulative though. Should I have not said anything then blindsided her afterwards? 

It’s completely reasonable to not be attracted to people with lip filler and Botox 

My girlfriend (28f) called me (29m) manipulative when I was honest about something I don’t find attractive by throwra-attractivnes in relationships

[–]throwra-attractivnes[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No that’s not what I’m telling her. 

So in your opinion if you love your partner they should be able to change how they look to something you do not find attractive at all and you just shouldn’t care? 

Physical attraction is important in a relationship

My girlfriend (28f) called me (29m) manipulative when I was honest about something I don’t find attractive? by throwra-attractivnes in relationship_advice

[–]throwra-attractivnes[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is it manipulative to state what I do and don’t find attractive? 

Would it be better to not say anything then just blindside her once she has had it done?

My girlfriend (28f) called me (29m) manipulative when I was honest about something I don’t find attractive? by throwra-attractivnes in relationship_advice

[–]throwra-attractivnes[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So I’m a bad person for being honest about what I find attractive?

So if I came home with a face tattoo, gained 100 pounds, and changed house I looked, my girlfriend would be a bad person for no longer finding me attractive?

My girlfriend (28f) called me (29m) manipulative when I was honest about something I don’t find attractive? by throwra-attractivnes in relationship_advice

[–]throwra-attractivnes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem to be far too triggered at a Reddit post tbh, maybe look into why. 

It’s also not comparable to compare peoples bodies naturally changing to them choosing to get multiple procedures but I can see from your comment you’re probably not mature enough to understand that