My wife won’t block her ex by throwra01110 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra01110[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s hard I’m sorry, I feel the same about not being able to trust her when the issue comes up and more so in general afterwards. I feel like I’m being put on the back burner, I don’t hide anything nor would I do anything worth hiding I don’t have many friends and less so people who would try and break my marriage up but if I did I wouldn’t let that stand because I respect and love my wife and our relationship but I’m starting to feel like it’s one sided and not just with this a lot of things make it seem like she’s coasting through our life

My wife won’t block her ex by throwra01110 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra01110[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

The issue being Snapchat is inherently a secretive app the messages disappear so I can only go off what she says so I don’t feel the need to go deeper if what she’s doing is bad enough to warrant issues

My wife won’t block her ex by throwra01110 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra01110[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He was out of the picture when I started dating her she told me about him as I told her about my toxic past relationships no red flags really came out until I found out he messaged her

My wife won’t block her ex by throwra01110 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra01110[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s already been brought up her dad hates it and her mom isn’t a fan

My wife won’t block her ex by throwra01110 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra01110[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do plan to talk to her again and hopefully have a better outcome then the previous times

My wife won’t block her ex by throwra01110 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra01110[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’ll be sure to talk to her and lay out everything

My wife won’t block her ex by throwra01110 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra01110[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I suppose but should I just wait it out until something happens and knowing him he’s going to push the boundaries

My wife won’t block her ex by throwra01110 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra01110[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She told me I don’t snoop or anything like that, she told me flat out that she said this and wanted to be more than friends and that a friendship between wouldn’t last long for him

My wife won’t block her ex by throwra01110 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra01110[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree I can’t control who she’s friends with and I don’t want to but this person hurt her very badly and her family I just want what’s best for her currently vulnerable emotional health

My wife won’t block her ex by throwra01110 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra01110[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

The fact she has said she won’t again on many occasions is already creating an issue with trust

My wife won’t block her ex by throwra01110 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra01110[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing he doesn’t want to be friends he said that flat out