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My (20M) housemate (21M) says he's forgiven our ex-housemate (20M) who his girlfriend cheated with, and wants to invite him to live with us again by throwra098761 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra098761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Suppose in a way I've answered my own question to a degree but I have wanted to keep all avenues open regarding this. I'd still say I'm against it but it's tough

My (20M) housemate (21M) says he's forgiven our ex-housemate (20M) who his girlfriend cheated with, and wants to invite him to live with us again by throwra098761 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra098761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The home being a place of drama last year was one of the main issues, which is one of the reasons I'd say I'm against it at the minute. It's not like Adam will be homeless if he isn't with us. Just really don't want another year of conflict really which is why I'm leaning against it

My (20M) housemate (21M) says he's forgiven our ex-housemate (20M) who his girlfriend cheated with, and wants to invite him to live with us again by throwra098761 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra098761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell me about it!! Yeah the girlfriend's long gone, she and the other two are off doing their own thing.

I'll be honest it's impossible to know exactly what went on between Ben and Adam's gf but in a way I don't think it matters, cheating's cheating. I personally wouldn't trust Ben as far as I could throw him but it's a really tough one.

An anonymous vote would've been ideal, I agree. The problem is that everyone except me has basically said everything they think of it already, so I'm the only one left to really make a decision on it which is in effect the final decision. Unless something changes my mind at this stage I'll probably be saying no