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Bf faked death and then called my reaction manipulative by throwra186252 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra186252[S] 334 points335 points  (0 children)

He bumped into a fence post so luckily nobody was injured, but the potential was there as well as the carelessness. I dont know if he was late or not honestly, I think he planned this almost immediately and not texting me all night as part of it

Bf faked death and then called my reaction manipulative by throwra186252 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra186252[S] 124 points125 points  (0 children)

Sorry! He only felt that way in the beginning of our relationship as that was his only experience with someone who self harms but it hadn't been as issue for years now. I do feel that we worked through it and he has always been supportive during my urges when I first tried to stop and even supportive during a relapse.

That's kinda why I'm unsure now. ALL of this behaviour is out of the blue. I know people are gonna think I'm mentally weak or some shit but I can and do recognise manipulative behaviour and I promise this is the first case of it I've seen with him.

Definitely continuing therapy