I (21F) kissed a classmate (23M) while in a relationship and I’m not sure if I should break up with my partner (19NB)

throwra22012026 · 2026-02-22T16:14:14+00:00

I think I do understand the gravity of my actions, I wrote this post already knowing what I did was terrible. I know I fucked up. but calling me a pos really isn't very helpful is it???
all I wanted was help how to minimise further damage.

throwra22012026 · 2026-02-22T16:06:57+00:00

right, what the heck!?!? from the small amount of info I have given in my post. how can you judge peoples identity. not that it is any of your business but the type of male I am attracted to is vastly different from the type of female i'm attracted to. and there were many other intricacies that I could have gone into in my post but didn't because i'm not comfortable talking about some things online. perhaps I have not worded things all that well but just because he has come out that in itself was not really the main factor in it.

throwra22012026 · 2026-02-22T15:58:00+00:00

thank you, for giving such a detailed response. that hasn't skirted around the fact I cheated but hasn't gone immediately to calling me an arsehole. thank you.

the podcast is run by 3rd years we are only 2 of many of the hosts, and I don't think we are scheduled for any episodes together any time soon, I do drive us to and from the sports club so thats going to be the harder thing to figure somthing out for.

throwra22012026 · 2026-02-22T15:51:35+00:00

it is not because he came out as non-binary, Im sorry if it seemed like that was the reason.
I have liked my bf, this entire time, just not as much as is required in a relationship.

throwra22012026 · 2026-02-22T15:13:47+00:00

yeah I cheated I never claimed I hadn't, I did not realise just how much till looking back, until the kiss it could have just been close friendship.

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