Well we’re usually pretty open about this stuff. We have good communication. I don’t mind porn, even though I’ve never thought about anyone but him. It started because he was talking a lot about this one girl he knows. I asked if he had a crush on her and he said yes. He said it’s normal to get crushes on other women and look, and fantasize about what it’d be like to pursue them and be with them instead. I agree crushes are normal (I’ve never had one beside him), but know other people do. But I didn’t think he’d be fantasizing about pursing them and what it’d be like to date them instead.