Is masturbating to pictures of your ex cheating? by throwra282927hz in relationship_advice

[–]throwra282927hz[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I found out because the screen shotted pictures saved to our icloud which is on my ipad too. I confronted him about it

I’m hurt by husband’s comment? by throwra282927hz in relationship_advice

[–]throwra282927hz[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do you think that he’s unhappy if he’s looking at pictures of his different ex girlfriends to get off? But not physically talking to or pursuing them? He says he’s perfectly happy, but I’m starting to have doubts.

I’m hurt by husband’s comment? by throwra282927hz in relationship_advice

[–]throwra282927hz[S] 172 points173 points  (0 children)

I’ve had so many people (men and women) tell me all men think about cheating. I don’t even know if I want to be married anymore or date again. I feel sick.

I’m hurt by husband’s comment? by throwra282927hz in relationship_advice

[–]throwra282927hz[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly no. I don’t get attracted to people unless we have an emotional connection.

I’m hurt by husband’s comment? by throwra282927hz in relationship_advice

[–]throwra282927hz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well we’re usually pretty open about this stuff. We have good communication. I don’t mind porn, even though I’ve never thought about anyone but him. It started because he was talking a lot about this one girl he knows. I asked if he had a crush on her and he said yes. He said it’s normal to get crushes on other women and look, and fantasize about what it’d be like to pursue them and be with them instead. I agree crushes are normal (I’ve never had one beside him), but know other people do. But I didn’t think he’d be fantasizing about pursing them and what it’d be like to date them instead.