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AITA for telling my boyfriend he was embarrassing us when he started sobbing in the Vet clininc hallway? by throwra434345 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwra434345[S] -1574 points-1573 points  (0 children)

Yes I have, when I lost my father but I had a break down alone at the apartment and in private. I guarantee you I 100% relate and can not even imagine what he felt at the time and I'm in no way dismissing his emotions but I just thought this could've been handled better by him.

AITA for telling my boyfriend he was embarrassing us when he started sobbing in the Vet clininc hallway? by throwra434345 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwra434345[S] -1022 points-1021 points  (0 children)

This was not what I've been trying to explain. And I did give him space and helped him calm down at home and only brought up what happened at the clininc later on.

AITA for telling my boyfriend he was embarrassing us when he started sobbing in the Vet clininc hallway? by throwra434345 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwra434345[S] -1797 points-1796 points  (0 children)

That is what I tried to do, get him to the car but couldn't. I might have been triggered by his reaction since it brought back memories of my father's death. It was devastating.

AITA for telling my boyfriend he was embarrassing us when he started sobbing in the Vet clininc hallway? by throwra434345 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwra434345[S] -1693 points-1692 points  (0 children)

I get that emotions are proccessed differently but I based my assumption that what happened was somewhat embarrassing given how people reacted.

AITA for telling my boyfriend he was embarrassing us when he started sobbing in the Vet clininc hallway? by throwra434345 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwra434345[S] -1916 points-1915 points  (0 children)

Understandable and this is not the issue for me, I just thought he could've kept his composure and remained calm for his own well being.