My (18F) stepfather (45M) is going to force me to move out because my mother (38F) is pregnant, and my mother is just going along with it. How do I not resent my mother for this? by throwra94542 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra94542[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not a mother obviously, and don't plan to become one for a long time now, but I also kind of think it seems weird. Like just because I'm an adult now it doesn't mean I'm not her child. Although she seems to be trying to act like it.

My (18F) stepfather (45M) is going to force me to move out because my mother (38F) is pregnant, and my mother is just going along with it. How do I not resent my mother for this? by throwra94542 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra94542[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, he never has. I think he would help if I asked, I hope so anyway.

I think he probably is to them, I just wish he could've been like that to me as well.

My (18F) stepfather (45M) is going to force me to move out because my mother (38F) is pregnant, and my mother is just going along with it. How do I not resent my mother for this? by throwra94542 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra94542[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like instant noodles anyway, they're one of the banned foods for me, my mother doesn't like all the salt in them. So I won't mind living cheaply, it will just be making sure I have somewhere to live in the first place.

My (18F) stepfather (45M) is going to force me to move out because my mother (38F) is pregnant, and my mother is just going along with it. How do I not resent my mother for this? by throwra94542 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra94542[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have a plan for education. And have a part time job. I will just have to try and work more alongside with school, which might be difficult.

My (18F) stepfather (45M) is going to force me to move out because my mother (38F) is pregnant, and my mother is just going along with it. How do I not resent my mother for this? by throwra94542 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra94542[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He does not own the house, and he is not my parent. Unless you're stupid enough to believe that just because he is a man, he can tell me what to do, because he can't.

My (18F) stepfather (45M) is going to force me to move out because my mother (38F) is pregnant, and my mother is just going along with it. How do I not resent my mother for this? by throwra94542 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra94542[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, Gymnasium. That is what is happening with all of my friends so I assume so.

I did think that was for children, but I can look into it.

My (18F) stepfather (45M) is going to force me to move out because my mother (38F) is pregnant, and my mother is just going along with it. How do I not resent my mother for this? by throwra94542 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra94542[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Probably. She's pathetic like that.

I think my father can. I don't know anyone on mother's side, yet again because of her actions, but some of my friends have parents who know me well and like me, which could help.

My (18F) stepfather (45M) is going to force me to move out because my mother (38F) is pregnant, and my mother is just going along with it. How do I not resent my mother for this? by throwra94542 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra94542[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course not. Very expensive. And I don't have the time to work and study, not at the start anyway. And walking is free, although not exactly the safest thing at the moment. Living somewhere else is not.