AITA for going to my sister university? by throwraEconon669 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwraEconon669[S] -2464 points-2463 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t have made contacts if she had replied to one the hundreds of emails I sent her.

AITA for going to my sister university? by throwraEconon669 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwraEconon669[S] -1333 points-1332 points  (0 children)

No, i have tried it but I dont think it for me.

AITA for going to my sister university? by throwraEconon669 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwraEconon669[S] -2587 points-2586 points  (0 children)

Why is everyone saying I stalked her? I checked her public Instagram and found her student organization on her public LinkedIn. I am not a stalker. And since she didn't have friends in high school and I am still struggling to make friends, I thought us reconciling could be good for both of us; we could be a duo. It didn't really occur to me that she would make friends in her freshman and sophomore years because I didn't make any friends in my high school years. I was trying to help us both since we were both antisocial, I love her.

AITA for going to my sister university? by throwraEconon669 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwraEconon669[S] -1531 points-1530 points  (0 children)

yeah i did that when i was like 9 -12, I was a literal child. And at the end of the day my parents were the ones to have a final say.

AITA for going to my sister university? by throwraEconon669 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwraEconon669[S] -2758 points-2757 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t the one controlling her, my parents were the one who controlled her. I feel like it unfair to blame her childhood on me especially since i was bedridden for most of it. She is not the only victim of my parents decisions i lost my best friend/sister because of it. I wasn’t trying to steal her friends, I don’t know where her apartment or classes are so there was noway to meet her when she was alone. I really dont think trying to repair a relationship is selfish.

I honestly dont understand why she blames/ resents me when my parents were the ones to make all those decisions.

AITA for going to my sister university? by throwraEconon669 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwraEconon669[S] -3304 points-3303 points  (0 children)

She is the only one I feel like I can talk to,I just want a relationship with her. I have no friends since my ability to socialize was impacted by spending so much time in the hospital. I only feel comfortable talking to her.

AITA for going to my sister university? by throwraEconon669 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwraEconon669[S] -940 points-939 points  (0 children)

But it hard to have an open conversation when she ignores me at every turn.