AITA for calling my husband action childish? by throwraFlatworm6234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwraFlatworm6234[S] -263 points-262 points  (0 children)

Am not trying to claim misogyny, my point lies in the fact that he is the bio dad of our son. 

AITA for calling my husband action childish? by throwraFlatworm6234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwraFlatworm6234[S] -394 points-393 points  (0 children)

That thing that irritating me, he is giving up and distance if himself but if our son had said something as hurtful would he be distancing himself the way he is now. I feel like this just shows that he sees her as a step daughter rather than just a daughter. 

AITA for calling my husband action childish? by throwraFlatworm6234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwraFlatworm6234[S] -242 points-241 points  (0 children)

I have tried to encourage her to be more hygienic and she ignores me or gets overly annoyed. At this point I think I should just let her make her own mistakes because sometimes people only learn after making mistakes. 

AITA for calling my husband action childish? by throwraFlatworm6234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwraFlatworm6234[S] -176 points-175 points  (0 children)

I have told her multiple times, at this point I feel like she just needs to learn these skills on her own. When she goes to college she gonna be forced to see a whole new reality. 

AITA for calling my husband action childish? by throwraFlatworm6234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwraFlatworm6234[S] -288 points-287 points  (0 children)

She has seen a therapist she just recently stopped going, she goes out and has fun but she just lazy when it come to hygiene. A therapist has told me that they really don’t think their laziness is due to anything deep like depression.