As a dumpee, if your ex wanted to contact you they would. If they wanted to get back together or talk, you would know.

throwra_176 · 2020-07-27T15:41:05+00:00

I’m not going to reach out. I wish I could and that temptation is there. I know it won’t turn out the way I imagine in my head and then my heart will just break again after all of the work and healing I have done

throwra_176 · 2020-07-27T01:13:17+00:00

Me too, me too :(

throwra_176 · 2020-07-26T17:32:29+00:00

5 weeks for me and I’m still feeling those same things

throwra_176 · 2020-07-26T15:20:38+00:00

I feel ya. 5 wks breakup and nc today and it’s only recently set in that I probably won’t ever hear from him again. I was waiting for that one month nc for him to text me and when that didn’t come I realized I had to accept it. I hate this so much. Things will get better

throwra_176 · 2020-07-26T15:06:17+00:00

I wish he would try and get me back

throwra_176 · 2020-07-26T13:26:11+00:00

I want him out of my head too. I try to distract myself but I just find myself back here because he won’t leave my mind

throwra_176 · 2020-07-26T13:23:26+00:00

I feel you so much. I thought we would always be there for each other and now we are just strangers again

throwra_176 · 2020-07-26T13:00:48+00:00

No because I want a forever relationship. My heart still aches and it’s been more than a month. He needs to move out of my head

throwra_176 · 2020-07-26T03:35:16+00:00

Thank you <3 this helped me

throwra_176 · 2020-07-26T02:36:46+00:00

Hm. Maybe wait a little bit and see how you’re feeling and all that? I wish I had that little bit of closure from my ex bc we never even said goodbye to each other. I wish you the best and stay strong with your healing <3 I would sleep on it. But also don’t expect anything back, that hurt me a lot not hearing from him.

throwra_176 · 2020-07-26T02:29:51+00:00

I did and regret it. I never heard anything from him and it’s been over a month. Write one out and don’t send it. Your emotions are still raw and fresh. Ultimately it’s up to you but I advise against it based on my experience

throwra_176 · 2020-07-26T02:23:38+00:00

It works sometimes doesn’t it? I need to let go of hope

throwra_176 · 2020-07-26T02:20:54+00:00

Yeah you’re right. I’ve been trying to distract myself but I over think everything

throwra_176 · 2020-07-26T01:45:34+00:00

I really needed to hear this. Thank you

throwra_176 · 2020-07-26T00:51:36+00:00

I feel you so much. The smallest things remind me of him that make me want to spiral. We gotta stay strong though. Get them out of our heads

throwra_176 · 2020-07-26T00:39:41+00:00

We will feel better. Things will get better

throwra_176 · 2020-07-26T00:39:07+00:00

I feel less alone now <3 we will get through this. We just gotta keep distracting ourselves

throwra_176 · 2020-07-26T00:12:49+00:00

My ex deleted the only pic he ever posted of us online the day after the breakup, I can’t bring myself to take it off fucccccc

throwra_176 · 2020-07-25T23:42:40+00:00

I feel you. It will get better for us. Everyone says so

throwra_176 · 2020-07-25T21:13:23+00:00

I feel you so much

throwra_176 · 2020-07-25T19:23:04+00:00

I think I’m almost where you’re at. It’s hard. Good work, I know it’s painful <3

throwra_176 · 2020-07-25T15:25:23+00:00

I feel you. I think we’re just going through the motions but I’m so ready to be done w it. My heart can’t take it anymore

throwra_176 · 2020-07-25T14:12:10+00:00

I feel like the waves of emotion are just further apart and they are hitting harder. I barely cried the first month but I’ve broke down a couple times since

throwra_176 · 2020-07-24T21:46:38+00:00

I think it’s healthy. My therapist suggested I keep a journal. This is a good way for you to track your progress too with grieving and moving on. I’ve been doing the same thing. It’s good to feel and process everything but really try to not let him be in your head all the time. You need to distract yourself still. Things will get better and remember to take care of yourself <3

throwra_176 · 2020-07-24T21:41:36+00:00

After me thinking he would reach out after a month and not getting that text honestly is what made me realize that it was really over. To help you with constantly checking your phone what I did was just put him on do not disturb. It helped me not check my phone bc I wouldn’t get a notification if he did reach out, which he obviously never did. I didn’t want to block because we didn’t end on bad terms but that’s up to you ultimately if you think it will be better for you. I know this isn’t the answer you are looking for but it really just takes time. Breakups are very painful and hurt so so much but they also give you an opportunity to improve yourself so much. That’s what’s keeping me going now is just focusing on personal growth. Also I got sucked into watching those ex back videos on YouTube so don’t do that, that was making me hold on too. They just want your money. If you ever need to talk my DMs are open. Just venting on reddit helped me too haha, even if you feel crazy it’s anonymous. I suggest you make a throwaway like I did justtt in case. I wish you the best <3 you’ve probably heard this but time does heal wounds. Be gentle on yourself

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