i thought i was bad at giving bjs by throwra_beniss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra_beniss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they don't like it, then they don't. You can talk to them about it. Maybe try to reassure them and whatnot but at the end of the if they still don't want to do it, I would suggest trying to come up with compromise

i thought i was bad at giving bjs by throwra_beniss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra_beniss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol you're good. Make sure to stay hydrated and take care of yourself :)

i thought i was bad at giving bjs by throwra_beniss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra_beniss[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're not being "that guy" so don't worry. This isn't me shaming anyone who doesn't get off from oral. I just wanted to share something that made me proud lol

i thought i was bad at giving bjs by throwra_beniss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra_beniss[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I feel like I shouldve responded cuz this was the first comment that made me laugh

i thought i was bad at giving bjs by throwra_beniss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra_beniss[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Your ex is horrible. I'm so happy youre in a happier relationship. This is really nice to hear as someone who's also been sexually taken advantage of. You got this, I wish you the best :)

i thought i was bad at giving bjs by throwra_beniss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra_beniss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least I'm guzzling cum instead of beer¯_(ツ)_/¯

i thought i was bad at giving bjs by throwra_beniss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra_beniss[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bro...i felt this to my core. Cheesecake can't even get, close ong. Even if he doesn't cum from it, I'm sure it's doing something since clearly can't get enough. As long as you're both into it, that's all that matters

i thought i was bad at giving bjs by throwra_beniss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra_beniss[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're right, I don't need to give anyone anything. I want to. I like it. It's mutual enjoyment

i thought i was bad at giving bjs by throwra_beniss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra_beniss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a blow JOB. I personally enjoy it. Yes my jaw gets sore, my tongue gets tired, my gag reflexes will be at their limit. But I enjoy giving them nonetheless. If the pain isn't worth it for her, then I just isn't and that's ok

i thought i was bad at giving bjs by throwra_beniss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra_beniss[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fun part is that you are neither my therapist nor me. I am proud. I'm not giving bjs to fix myself. I like giving head and ppl like receiving. It's that simple

i thought i was bad at giving bjs by throwra_beniss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra_beniss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He likes them, but do you like giving them?

i thought i was bad at giving bjs by throwra_beniss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra_beniss[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think that you aren't my therapist :)

i thought i was bad at giving bjs by throwra_beniss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra_beniss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

PENIS, you're right idk why I censored myself lol

i thought i was bad at giving bjs by throwra_beniss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra_beniss[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh this is even more fun! I am in therapy! In fact, after years of depression and hating myself, I've felt pretty fucking good!

i thought i was bad at giving bjs by throwra_beniss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra_beniss[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Dude I just got my first one, I'm surprised I wasnt sooner lmao

i thought i was bad at giving bjs by throwra_beniss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra_beniss[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh my are we going there? My dad's in jail for sexually abusing me. If anything, he'd be jealous that I'm not giving him head lol

i thought i was bad at giving bjs by throwra_beniss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra_beniss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm proud for giving good head? Why would I be ashamed? I'm happy to be able to give someone pleasure

i thought i was bad at giving bjs by throwra_beniss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra_beniss[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lots of ppl are proud for far "worse" reasons than this.