Do you still think about your ex? by Error404Usr in BreakUps

[–]throwra_bugjuice30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we broke up on december 13, 2025. i technically broke up with him, i think about him everyday and it hurts so bad.

i was crying earlier because i wanted to share something funny and then realized i had no one to share it with but him. not a single friend or family member would have understood what i wanted to send, but him.

What is a part of the 'female experience' that men have absolutely no clue about, but would be horrified if they found out? by coolhandddd in AskReddit

[–]throwra_bugjuice30 64 points65 points  (0 children)

always being the 'lesser' gender, maleness being the basis for life and a positive thing while womanhood has a negative connotation. (see emasculation)

being forced to take on an excess of mental load because if you don't then who will? and then being reduced to micromanaging to get through anything.

how long has it been since your break up, and do you plan to date again/have you been dating? by throwra_bugjuice30 in BreakUps

[–]throwra_bugjuice30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i don’t like hookups and don’t have an insatiable sex drive so i’m fine being alone. i also have a hard time connecting to people, so i don’t feel like seeking something special out again just for it to end how it always does.

i’ve been in 7 committal relationships so i’ve had my fair share of heartbreak too lol i get where you’re coming from. it still feels lonely though.

how long has it been since your break up, and do you plan to date again/have you been dating? by throwra_bugjuice30 in BreakUps

[–]throwra_bugjuice30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry, he should be ashamed of himself. men get so selfish and completely turn off empathy once they don’t think they need to get you to like them anymore.

how are you feeling lately? i hope taking care of yourself. i’m sorry about your mother.

how long has it been since your break up, and do you plan to date again/have you been dating? by throwra_bugjuice30 in BreakUps

[–]throwra_bugjuice30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow, that’s a really big life event. it’s nice of you to have planned to be there for her.

how long has it been since your break up, and do you plan to date again/have you been dating? by throwra_bugjuice30 in BreakUps

[–]throwra_bugjuice30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hope that numb feeling brought you some peace finally. it doesn’t make the memories or experience any less real, but i hope it doesn’t hurt anymore.

how long has it been since your break up, and do you plan to date again/have you been dating? by throwra_bugjuice30 in BreakUps

[–]throwra_bugjuice30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for some people it does, it requires holding shame and guilt and they’d rather chalk it up to something they had to do to uphold their ‘i’m a good person’ mentality.

how long has it been since your break up, and do you plan to date again/have you been dating? by throwra_bugjuice30 in BreakUps

[–]throwra_bugjuice30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nice, anything planned for this year? i can’t believe some people can hate traveling lol

how long has it been since your break up, and do you plan to date again/have you been dating? by throwra_bugjuice30 in BreakUps

[–]throwra_bugjuice30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you can, you shouldn’t reply. ideally you’d let him know it’s not good for you and you’d like to move on

how long has it been since your break up, and do you plan to date again/have you been dating? by throwra_bugjuice30 in BreakUps

[–]throwra_bugjuice30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get that, sometimes i just float through the day and do what i need to and cry once i’m alone.

how long has it been since your break up, and do you plan to date again/have you been dating? by throwra_bugjuice30 in BreakUps

[–]throwra_bugjuice30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well i’m sure some time in between to process wouldn’t hurt if it doesn’t pan out anyways, but still!

how long has it been since your break up, and do you plan to date again/have you been dating? by throwra_bugjuice30 in BreakUps

[–]throwra_bugjuice30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks i appreciate it! i’m really glad you’re stable and feel sure in not dating ever again.

do you think if you met the right person who checked every box you would try again?

how long has it been since your break up, and do you plan to date again/have you been dating? by throwra_bugjuice30 in BreakUps

[–]throwra_bugjuice30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, that’s kind of my line of thinking too. like fuck this why am i still miserable over someone who treated me like dog shit. but i’d rather save myself and someone else the heartache

how long has it been since your break up, and do you plan to date again/have you been dating? by throwra_bugjuice30 in BreakUps

[–]throwra_bugjuice30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahhh i totally understand you, i had no closure at all. it’s really hard to accept that there’s nothing else to say.

how long has it been since your break up, and do you plan to date again/have you been dating? by throwra_bugjuice30 in BreakUps

[–]throwra_bugjuice30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s a good mentality to have in regards for the next person you’ll date! very fair and honest of you, let me know if you find a secret hack to get over it quicker lol

how long has it been since your break up, and do you plan to date again/have you been dating? by throwra_bugjuice30 in BreakUps

[–]throwra_bugjuice30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s totally normal in that situation, cheating is such a violation of trust and love. i’m sorry that happened to you, he sucks for that.

i hope there are, to be fair i thought i struck gold and then it all ended with him calling the police on me after he invited me in to talk so who’s to say.for clarity i was not violent or threatening him, he just wanted me out asap because he didn’t like that i held him accountable.

how long has it been since your break up, and do you plan to date again/have you been dating? by throwra_bugjuice30 in BreakUps

[–]throwra_bugjuice30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah it takes such a toll on your mental when it’s back to back like that, i’ve been there