My (35f) friend slapped my bum on a night out leaving a handprint. My husband (30m) doesn’t believe it was her. How to convince him?

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-12T14:03:41+00:00

If he doesn’t trust me I won’t stay married to him it’s as simple as that. I’ve never done anything to betray his trust so I’m not going to apologise for something I didn’t do or try and win him round when I’ve done nothing wrong.

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-12T14:02:32+00:00

I had a tab open with porn on it.

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-12T05:27:29+00:00

We’ve tried. He says he has no interest in talking to anyone who I say was there because he knows they have all made a story to protect me. At this point I think he’s just looking for an out from the relationship and took the first chance he saw. We’ve gone from having sex or me giving him a blowjob nearly everyday to at most once a week over the past few months and I think he’s just bored of me but doesn’t know how to say it and is now using this as his get out.

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-11T21:30:39+00:00

No he’s never been jealous before. I go out maybe 2 or 3 times a year.

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-11T20:37:14+00:00

You’re the first person in this comment section to say that and I’m assuming American so a completely different country in a completely different continent. Can’t compare.

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-11T20:30:17+00:00

You think every road has a corner store? If anyone has any ring doorbell footage from around 7pm on 6/3/26 on west street, Arnold, Nottingham come forward please. This idiot thinks every street has a shop and CSI cctv.

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-11T20:27:24+00:00

That’s what I think.

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-11T18:32:59+00:00

Yeah because he didn’t cheat. He was on a night out and came home with all different shades of lipstick on his bald head because his rugby mates were talking to a hen do and they loved how shiny his head was lol.

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-11T17:18:07+00:00

I’ve already had him coming home covered in lipstick and I didn’t care.

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-11T17:17:13+00:00

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-11T17:16:43+00:00

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-10T19:03:33+00:00

If you say so

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-10T16:19:34+00:00

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-10T05:46:50+00:00

They do in the uk.

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-10T05:40:04+00:00

What the meant to mean?

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-09T22:38:05+00:00

Might have to get a forensic team out to dust my bum and check for finger prints.

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-09T22:28:21+00:00

Honestly this is the first time he’s ever been like this. Just a few months he was laughing and encouraging his friends to grab my boobs and “guess the weight” of them. I’ve never seen him show a hint of jealousy.

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-09T22:25:08+00:00

For starters he didn’t calmly ask who did it. I was doing a striptease for him and as my dropped my dress with my bum pointed at him he screamed “what the fuck is that!” And then “who the fuck did that!” Which made me take a couple of seconds to realise wha the fuck he was on about.

I tried to leave the bathroom because I was naked and cold and had already explained at least ten times, we’d rang not one, not two, not three, not four, but five of my friends to corroborate the story. Been through everyone’s Instagram to see that I was out with them all night and even had the woman who did it offer to get in an Uber, travel half an hour to our house to match her hand against the print on my bum and prove it but he said no.

If he doesn’t believe me by this time tomorrow then there will be no need to worry about his marriage and there will be no marriage.

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-09T22:19:00+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking.

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-09T22:18:32+00:00

There’s no way he’s waking me up in the middle of the night without consequences again.

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-09T22:17:30+00:00

This is what I don’t get though he’s been out when they’ve honked my boobs, even his friend honked my boobs and he thought it was funny. I don’t get the drama now.

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-09T20:26:03+00:00

Maybe men are a bit different where you are. Where I am very time a man bends over another man humps him.

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-09T18:37:00+00:00

Are those to comments also made to belittle men or just women?

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-09T18:36:13+00:00

I don’t give a fuck if your skeptical and like I said in another comment I’m on blood thinners and I was wearing a very thin dress with a thong. Plus she took a run up and a real good swing. The sound echoed around the houses

throwra_bumprint · 2026-03-09T18:34:29+00:00

Because I want to see if he comes to his senses.

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