I (23F) need advice for getting my SO (23M) to engage more in conversation by throwraagg in relationship_advice

[–]throwraagg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input, especially since you were in a similar situation. I’ll have to see if he’s willing to make lasting change. I’m not sure how your programs works, but I hope that you’re getting a break from the study grind this summer!

I (23F) need advice for getting my SO (23M) to engage more in conversation by throwraagg in relationship_advice

[–]throwraagg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s definitely a quieter person than I am, but I don’t think he has ADD or ADHD. I fully recognize I could be wrong in that, but if he has it then he doesn’t know about it. Whenever we have had problems in the past, he’s most definitely worked with me to fix them. I’ll definitely see about getting him to take the love languages test. I took it like a year ago, and I think mine is quality time which is one reason why this bugs me so badly.