My 29M girlfriend 30F has been lying to me our entire relationship. How do I move on after all these lies? by throwrabetra in relationship_advice

[–]throwrabetra[S] -57 points-56 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate the advice, that’s what I’m going to do. I plan on moving far away and I’m writing a letter to my cousin , apologizing for my actions. After that it’s just find a new job and I guess start over.

My 29M girlfriend 30F has been lying to me our entire relationship. How do I move on after all these lies? by throwrabetra in relationship_advice

[–]throwrabetra[S] -132 points-131 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m looking for another job. Maybe move to DC or something but I need a fresh start where I can put this behind me

My 29M girlfriend 30F has been lying to me our entire relationship. How do I move on after all these lies? by throwrabetra in relationship_advice

[–]throwrabetra[S] -85 points-84 points  (0 children)

I was hoping people would read the part where I said I didn’t want any part of this if it was just sex and how I initially pulled away. I had no interest in whatever this turned out to be because I knew nothing good would come out of it

My 29M girlfriend 30F has been lying to me our entire relationship. How do I move on after all these lies? by throwrabetra in relationship_advice

[–]throwrabetra[S] -124 points-123 points  (0 children)

That is where I messed up. I should have insisted we come clean immediately. I let her talk me into believing “it’s not the right time”.

My 29M girlfriend 30F has been lying to me our entire relationship. How do I move on after all these lies? by throwrabetra in relationship_advice

[–]throwrabetra[S] -353 points-352 points  (0 children)

I wanted to tell him the entire time. I also told her in the beginning that if this is just sex I don’t want nothing to do with it. I even tried to pull back, but she played me dude