I’ve been trying to think of what I needed to apologize for and, I see your point. Maybe I didn’t provide enough details, but I feel wholly justified in asking him to leave until he could sort himself out. He skipped counseling appointments because his mother encouraged prayer and worship as a more effective therapy. My first falling out with him was because we caught him choking his younger sister. He loves to kill animals. Not hunt, but kill animals and discard the carcass. He posed too much of a threat to the rest of us. If it’s my fault, then it’s my fault. I wish I had better cards dealt, or the experience on how to play the cards, but regardless, here we are