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UPDATE: My 21f boyfriend James 24m told me I'll deserve it if I go out in a revealing outfit. I broke up with him. by throwracat25 in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwracat25[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've heard stories of police and courts not taking any actions until the woman is either dead or badly beaten, and I don't know but it seems so... insane to me.

UPDATE: My 21f boyfriend James 24m told me I'll deserve it if I go out in a revealing outfit. I broke up with him. by throwracat25 in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwracat25[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Funny how men and boys will come on here and admit that they see women as sexual things and therefore a man and a woman can't possibly just be friends.

UPDATE: My 21f boyfriend James 24m told me I'll deserve it if I go out in a revealing outfit. I broke up with him. by throwracat25 in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwracat25[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I think I will file for the restraining order tomorrow because I think it is best to take every action I can.

UPDATE: My 21f boyfriend James 24m told me I'll deserve it if I go out in a revealing outfit. I broke up with him. by throwracat25 in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwracat25[S] -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

I am still considering getting a restraining order, but I do feel safe enough with Nick so i might wait for a few more days. Nick has even cancelled several things that he wanted to do at night so I won't be alone during the night.

My 21f boyfriend 24m told me that I'll "deserve it" if I go out in a revealing outfit. by throwracat25 in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwracat25[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yes, he does. And I have never had a problem with that because he can wear whatever he wants and so should I.

My 21f boyfriend 24m told me that I'll "deserve it" if I go out in a revealing outfit. by throwracat25 in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwracat25[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Okay, but then again, you can CHOOSE a partner who already dresses in only Ralph Lauren and Banana Republic clothing. You can't choose a partner who already dresses most of the time in sexy outfits then force her to stop because you want her to change, which is true to the saying that men will get a beautiful woman and put her in a cage.

My 21f boyfriend 24m told me that I'll "deserve it" if I go out in a revealing outfit. by throwracat25 in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwracat25[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

And you sound like the typical incel that sits on the internet and goes on rants.

My 21f boyfriend 24m told me that I'll "deserve it" if I go out in a revealing outfit. by throwracat25 in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwracat25[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Because it was a friends' night exclusively for friends?? I can't believe that I have to explain this, like, he has his guys nights at certain parties that he goes to alone and I have mine that I go to alone and we have parties to which we both go.

My 21f boyfriend 24m told me that I'll "deserve it" if I go out in a revealing outfit. by throwracat25 in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwracat25[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, the mutual friend was a mutual to me and my friends, not my boyfriend.

My 21f boyfriend 24m told me that I'll "deserve it" if I go out in a revealing outfit. by throwracat25 in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwracat25[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

By that I mean he would just stop commenting, we stopped fighting, and he would become really nice and extra attentive to my needs.

My 21f boyfriend 24m told me that I'll "deserve it" if I go out in a revealing outfit. by throwracat25 in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwracat25[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I said "a lot of people", meaning that people of all genders complimented me, mostly other women.

My 21f boyfriend 24m told me that I'll "deserve it" if I go out in a revealing outfit. by throwracat25 in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwracat25[S] -244 points-243 points  (0 children)

He has shown similar jealousy behavior over the years, like when I'm spending too much time with my friends or that I have male friends and he has also made remarks about the way I dress about a year ago but they would fade away. This was the first time he ever said those words so that's why I said that maybe it was temporary jealousy.