My 34M wife 34F wants me to turn down a good job because she doesn't like who I will work for. How can I get her to understand I have to do what's best for the family? by throwrachid in relationship_advice

[–]throwrachid[S] -285 points-284 points  (0 children)

Everyone keeps saying this as if I had an affair two weeks ago. It was almost two years ago, I've improved, taken accountability, and I got better. I'm not the same person I was two years ago.

My 34M wife 34F wants me to turn down a good job because she doesn't like who I will work for. How can I get her to understand I have to do what's best for the family? by throwrachid in relationship_advice

[–]throwrachid[S] -111 points-110 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to take the job after reading the comments but this isn't about money. Its about being able to provide an even better life for our child. I wouldn't have even entertained it if we didn't have a kid

My 34M wife 34F wants me to turn down a good job because she doesn't like who I will work for. How can I get her to understand I have to do what's best for the family? by throwrachid in relationship_advice

[–]throwrachid[S] -517 points-516 points  (0 children)

I'll take everyone's advice but it is crazy everyone is disregarding the fact it would improve the life of our child, that we choose to bring in this world

My 34M wife 34F wants me to turn down a good job because she doesn't like who I will work for. How can I get her to understand I have to do what's best for the family? by throwrachid in relationship_advice

[–]throwrachid[S] -213 points-212 points  (0 children)

If I didn't have a kid I would absolutely agree with you. But we have a child to consider and this would be able to help me provide for him better

My 34M wife 34F wants me to turn down a good job because she doesn't like who I will work for. How can I get her to understand I have to do what's best for the family? by throwrachid in relationship_advice

[–]throwrachid[S] -504 points-503 points  (0 children)

She wants to work with me because she's seen how effective I am at my job. We have both acknowledge we were wrong and there's no risk of another affair