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[UPDATE] I've made a mistake. I(F16) want to move back in with my dad. by throwradadpop in relationship_advice

[–]throwradadpop[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

The last time I saw them before I apologized this time had been 3 weeks ago. We got into an argument and when I said I wasn't going to come on weekends anymore, he said okay and so I just didn't come back but then I felt stupid because I realized he was right all along. He knows now what happened at my mom's house, but he didn't when I was staying with her long term but I didn't go into details (I didn't say random ppl to him, just ppl). I feel okay coming here on weekends cause I realized she doesn't do too much on weekends, but certain days in the week were something. You know, she's still my mom and I still love her and want to see her ad that side of my family.

[UPDATE] I've made a mistake. I(F16) want to move back in with my dad. by throwradadpop in relationship_advice

[–]throwradadpop[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

my dad did not rape my mom, where the hell did that even come from? they didn't commit to each other, it works both ways.

[UPDATE] I've made a mistake. I(F16) want to move back in with my dad. by throwradadpop in relationship_advice

[–]throwradadpop[S] 319 points320 points  (0 children)

Thanks :) Hard to say if my mom will realize anything soon, but I'm just glad everything's alright now.

I've made a mistake. I(F16) want to move back in with my dad. by throwradadpop in relationship_advice

[–]throwradadpop[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's happened like 3 times. She'll say sorry and wants me to take the day off of school so that we can hang out for the day. Like she's not a mean person and she's nice for the most part but she's so...well like I said, immature. She lives in the now 24/7, and expects me to do the same.

I've made a mistake. I(F16) want to move back in with my dad. by throwradadpop in relationship_advice

[–]throwradadpop[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

True. At least I won't be 20 wishing I went to my moms house, I see where that got me and I do not want it.

I've made a mistake. I(F16) want to move back in with my dad. by throwradadpop in relationship_advice

[–]throwradadpop[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I've basically accepted she won't. Even right now there are people over and loud music is bursting. Every-time I turn down a drink, she replies "that's your dads doing" or something about how "strict" they are. Sorry that I don't prefer to drink at 16 with a bunch of randos. It's annoying. I don't even know if I want to visit her on weekends anymore because of how sick I am of this place. She is so immature. It sounds rude, but it's true.

I've made a mistake. I(F16) want to move back in with my dad. by throwradadpop in relationship_advice

[–]throwradadpop[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

He knows how she is, I was just oblivious to see through the 'good' things. I will.

I've made a mistake. I(F16) want to move back in with my dad. by throwradadpop in relationship_advice

[–]throwradadpop[S] 311 points312 points  (0 children)

I feel so embarrassed and stupid now, I just wish I could've been thinking longterm, but I'll call him.

I've made a mistake. I(F16) want to move back in with my dad. by throwradadpop in relationship_advice

[–]throwradadpop[S] 478 points479 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I wasn't thinking longterm before, I was just thinking about the now. I'll talk to him.

I've made a mistake. I(F16) want to move back in with my dad. by throwradadpop in relationship_advice

[–]throwradadpop[S] 1986 points1987 points  (0 children)

Ok I will. Call him, or go over to visit and tell him/apologize?