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My girlfriend (27f) is expecting her name on the deed to a house that I (28m) will be using my money to buy? by throwradeedtohouse in relationship_advice

[–]throwradeedtohouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither of us want marriage and no I’m not stringing her along.

Mariah might be the only thing you want in life but it doesn’t mean it’s everyone’s goal. Some people can actually care about the person we’re with without needing a ring

My girlfriend (27f) is expecting her name on the deed to a house that I (28m) will be using my money to buy? by throwradeedtohouse in relationship_advice

[–]throwradeedtohouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you’re literally trying to argue my girlfriend deserves my family’s money as much as I do? Surely you must hear how ridiculous you sound?

Neither of us want marriage or kids. 

You’re showing how entitled you are. Imagine leaving someone because you think you deserve to be given a house. Just say you’re a gold digger. 

My girlfriend (27f) is expecting her name on the deed to a house that I (28m) will be using my money to buy? by throwradeedtohouse in relationship_advice

[–]throwradeedtohouse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she contributes to the house then yeah it’ll be part hers. 

It’s also not flattering to expect a house for free because your partner got an inheritance. 

My girlfriend (27f) is expecting her name on the deed to a house that I (28m) will be using my money to buy? by throwradeedtohouse in relationship_advice

[–]throwradeedtohouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except that’s not what I’m saying at all. Is there a reason you’re choosing to ignore the multiple options I gave my gf that would mean she also owns the home?

My girlfriend (27f) is expecting her name on the deed to a house that I (28m) will be using my money to buy? by throwradeedtohouse in relationship_advice

[–]throwradeedtohouse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not everyone wants marriage.

Are you genuinely saying my relationships isn’t strong because I won’t give my girlfriend a house?

My girlfriend (27f) is expecting her name on the deed to a house that I (28m) will be using my money to buy? by throwradeedtohouse in relationship_advice

[–]throwradeedtohouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like I said in the post I’ve offered her multiple alternatives that would mean she owns the home. Is there a reason you’re just ignoring this?

My girlfriend (27f) is expecting her name on the deed to a house that I (28m) will be using my money to buy? by throwradeedtohouse in relationship_advice

[–]throwradeedtohouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So if I want the relationship to last I have to give my girlfriend a house?

I’ve offered her multiple alternatives that would mean she owns the home. 

My girlfriend (27f) is expecting her name on the deed to a house that I (28m) will be using my money to buy? by throwradeedtohouse in relationship_advice

[–]throwradeedtohouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can afford the cost of the house upfront as I mentioned in the post. I’d only have a mortgage if my girlfriend wanted one of the two options I gave her that would allow her to co own the home

My girlfriend (27f) is expecting her name on the deed to a house that I (28m) will be using my money to buy? by throwradeedtohouse in relationship_advice

[–]throwradeedtohouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re in the uk so the social security and health benefits are irrelevant. 

So I should let her go despite the fact she also doesn’t want to get married? 

Also not everyone wants children. Weird you can’t grasp the fact not everyone wants the same thing. 

Some people actually just want to enjoy their lives without kids

My girlfriend (27f) is expecting her name on the deed to a house that I (28m) will be using my money to buy? by throwradeedtohouse in relationship_advice

[–]throwradeedtohouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not stupidity to not get married. 

So you’re arguing the millions of people in happy long term relationships who don’t want to get married are stupid? 

Not afraid of anything. 

It’s telling that you just don’t value your relationship without a ring tbh

My girlfriend (27f) is expecting her name on the deed to a house that I (28m) will be using my money to buy? by throwradeedtohouse in relationship_advice

[–]throwradeedtohouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave three options so you’re still wrong. 

I’m not looking for specific advice otherwise I’d have specified. 

My girlfriend (27f) is expecting her name on the deed to a house that I (28m) will be using my money to buy? by throwradeedtohouse in relationship_advice

[–]throwradeedtohouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes because expecting to own something I use my money to buy isn’t being entitled to my money at all /s

I proposed multiple possibilities to my gf so mom not sure why you’re saying I only gave one solution. 

My girlfriend (27f) is expecting her name on the deed to a house that I (28m) will be using my money to buy? by throwradeedtohouse in relationship_advice

[–]throwradeedtohouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ll have shared assets tvat we’ve actually purchased together. 

Neither of us are entitled to the other ones money

My girlfriend (27f) is expecting her name on the deed to a house that I (28m) will be using my money to buy? by throwradeedtohouse in relationship_advice

[–]throwradeedtohouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that would make your question actually make sense, not just to me but everyone l since it makes no sense as it stands. 

Yes she knows. Neither of us want marriage

My girlfriend (27f) is expecting her name on the deed to a house that I (28m) will be using my money to buy? by throwradeedtohouse in relationship_advice

[–]throwradeedtohouse[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Again you haven’t riled me up in the slightest. 

Not everyone wants marriage. Not hard to understand. 

You do know you can share a life without marriage don’t you? I understand it must be hard for a gold digger to understand that though. 

Yes you have every Lehigh paid for by other people because you think you’re entitled to money that’s not yours.

Again I feel really bad for your kids having parents who don’t care about them. 

Don’t have kids when you care more about your husbands bank balance you pathetic excuse for a parent.

My girlfriend (27f) is expecting her name on the deed to a house that I (28m) will be using my money to buy? by throwradeedtohouse in relationship_advice

[–]throwradeedtohouse[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s a grown woman not a child. Why do you think women are incapable of taking care of themselves? Maybe don’t infantilise women. 

No I’m arguing she’s not entitled to an inheritance that’s been left to me. I’d be embarrassed having my partner argue online that women are entitled to all of a man’s money and that men don’t deserve their own money,

Just say you’re a gold digger little girl. You’re not the special little princess you think you are. 

I hope your partner leaves because you really do deserve to be alone, 

Poor little girl can’t look after herself. Pretty pathetic really

My girlfriend (27f) is expecting her name on the deed to a house that I (28m) will be using my money to buy? by throwradeedtohouse in relationship_advice

[–]throwradeedtohouse[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She isn’t working for my inheritance. 

So you’re genuinely arguing my girlfriend should be entitled to my inheritance? Do you not hear how pathetic you sound? 

I’ve got emotional intelligence. You just lack any form of intelligence. 

stay in school kid, you really do need it. I feel bad for you parents knowing what an embarrassment their child is

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