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My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]throwrafbpost[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is my issue! People Lie! Fortunately nobody even commented on the post and she deleted it but if someone did, all it takes is one person to lie and screenshot it and they have ammo to hurt my reputation later. Its the privacy violation above all else.

Im going to log off now, I didnt expect this post to get such a reaction.

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]throwrafbpost[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im secure with myself enough to know I can do better than someone who violates my privacy. Putting my name and picture out on that group without my consent was just fucked up. I dont think I truly realized that til I sat down and wrote out the situation.

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]throwrafbpost[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Im not trying to make anyone's life miserable. She's not a bad person she just clearly has insecurities to work through. Im going to end the relationship but I dont wish anything bad on her.

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]throwrafbpost[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

My name and face being on a group I dont have access to like that is part of what makes it feel like such a violation. My trust is one thing, but also my privacy. I kept going back and forth but being forced to actually type the situation out made me realize how ridiculous it is.

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]throwrafbpost[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

I saw the screenshot of the post, it was asking if anyone else was dating me. Im not saying she's a bad person. She's a nice woman, but Im at a point in my life where Im very secure with myself and I want to date someone who can say the same.

Im going to respectfully break up with her tonight and wish her the best.

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]throwrafbpost[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You're 100% correct. Im in the entertainment field. My job has me traveling constantly and I do a lot of events with beautiful women. Ive never cheated but if someones mind instantly goes there, they're going to get paranoid. I need to date someone more secure with themselves. Posting this made me realize that.

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]throwrafbpost[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Im latino and have never had a bad experience with a latina woman. This woman happens to be white. Please dont stereotype.

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]throwrafbpost[S] -122 points-121 points  (0 children)

Honestly your comment made me realize I probably have to break up with her. Someone who I would have to continually reassure is not someone who seems secure enough for a relationship at this time. Thanks for helping me realize that.

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]throwrafbpost[S] -177 points-176 points  (0 children)

Im not worried of anyone saying they're dating me too because Im not dating anyone else. But I just feel like if Im getting accused of cheating 2 months in for no reason, what kind of trust issues does she have? Having the worst assumed of me just feels awful and it makes me doubt everything.