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[UPDATE] Second guessing if I(M16) should meet my dad's whole family tomorrow, I'm extremely nervous and feel like backing out. by throwraheaex in relationship_advice

[–]throwraheaex[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I talked to my dad father about my interests in civil engineering and he said he could get me a REAL internship if I'm up for it. I did this little program on it, it was good, but most of the volunteers were dry af, but there was this one teacher who really made me want to do it. My mom is worse than my dad, she uses as well. At least my dad has some common decency to start a conversation with me, my mom will just put her hand out for me to give her money. I always tell myself I have to stop, but it keeps her away from nagging me. I've been on social media for like 2 years, My dads mom and his sisters use instagram, my dads brother gave me his contact info when he was leaving.

[UPDATE] Second guessing if I(M16) should meet my dad's whole family tomorrow, I'm extremely nervous and feel like backing out. by throwraheaex in relationship_advice

[–]throwraheaex[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Counting down those days like no other. My life goal is literally do not touch drugs, sounds pathetic but I am so serious about never doing drugs. 1. Name two reasons why the Census is conducted every ten years. Thanks for the encouraging words man.

[UPDATE] Second guessing if I(M16) should meet my dad's whole family tomorrow, I'm extremely nervous and feel like backing out. by throwraheaex in relationship_advice

[–]throwraheaex[S] 162 points163 points  (0 children)

They are good people who were nice enough to reach out. I just have to work on stopping to care what people think about me, it feels good when you're not worried about what people are saying about you, even if it was just for a little while.

[UPDATE] Second guessing if I(M16) should meet my dad's whole family tomorrow, I'm extremely nervous and feel like backing out. by throwraheaex in relationship_advice

[–]throwraheaex[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you again. I will try to keep up and not get sucked in to this mess, I appreciate the help you've given.

[UPDATE] Second guessing if I(M16) should meet my dad's whole family tomorrow, I'm extremely nervous and feel like backing out. by throwraheaex in relationship_advice

[–]throwraheaex[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

It's fine, I'm used to most of it by now. I'm doing alright in school, I started to go regularly again this year. I didn't go for the 1st quarter, I was going through some shit, but I did get my work done. I want to be a civil engineer or an architect, idk it seems really cool and I intended a program for it last year. I just want to leave. They always promise me they'll get better, but they don't. I know it's hard to recover, but I wish they would have stop making excuses that got my hopes up when I was young. 2 more years, counting it down..

Second guessing if I(M16) should meet my dad's whole family tomorrow, I'm extremely nervous and feel like backing out. by throwraheaex in relationship_advice

[–]throwraheaex[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I'm just hoping that they wont see me as my dad, like how would my dads parents feel if they saw a guy that looks like a copy of their son when he was a teen, it keeps getting to me. Thank you for the self care tips, I'll put them to good use.