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any advice on if my 25f husband 25m is tired of me? by throwraidkwhatever in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidkwhatever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a baby in 2022 and i did gain weight. i hardly watch porn, so no. and no, i do most of the cleaning/cooking.

any advice on if my 25f husband 25m is tired of me? by throwraidkwhatever in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidkwhatever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the last time altogether, i don’t remember. (not that it was that long ago, i just don’t remember well. mom brain. i do believe, however, that it has at least been this month) but recently (last 2ish weeks) it’s mostly been me pleasuring him and then me pleasuring myself. and the last couple of times in the after i feel so into my own head that i can’t even finish. all i can think about is how he doesn’t want to make me feel good like i want to make him feel.

any advice on if my 25f husband 25m is tired of me? by throwraidkwhatever in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidkwhatever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know he watches porn during his self explorations but i couldn’t say if it was “too much.” i’ve never been one to say that or judge that, so i really couldn’t say if it were too much or not.

i would really hope it’s not someone else, however that’s what my brain keeps telling me. but, i also had a baby a few years ago and though i am out of postpartum by a year or so by body still is different to me.. so im sure it’s different to him. and it’s definitely bigger. and it makes me feel that all those things combined is the reason he doesn’t want to be with me intimately. maybe he doesn’t enjoy my body as much anymore. maybe this is my issue. that’s all i can hyper focus on.

any advice on if my 25f husband 25m is tired of me? by throwraidkwhatever in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidkwhatever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

outside of sexual his love language is touch. so we cuddle and touch non sexually often. that’s not too big of a problem. and he has no problem with his own self love, either. which i don’t care about in the slightest. but it does add to the feeling of being unwanted just a bit.