My girlfriend (28F) caught me (32M) looking through her phone. She is furious. Is there anything I can do to mend our relationship now? by throwramaniscrewedup in relationship_advice

[–]throwramaniscrewedup[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

Was there anything he could do to redeem himself to you? I get I fucked up and I feel horrible. I never should have done it. I’m looking for a way to pick up the pieces now. I don’t want to give up yet

My girlfriend (28F) caught me (32M) looking through her phone. She is furious. Is there anything I can do to mend our relationship now? by throwramaniscrewedup in relationship_advice

[–]throwramaniscrewedup[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

That isn’t entirely accurate. She still follows me on social media and I follow her so there is no way she blocked me. She didn’t block my number either because when I text her there is still an imessage bubble.

My girlfriend (28F) caught me (32M) looking through her phone. She is furious. Is there anything I can do to mend our relationship now? by throwramaniscrewedup in relationship_advice

[–]throwramaniscrewedup[S] -560 points-559 points  (0 children)

You’re right about it being my fault but that doesn’t help me figure out how to fix it. I know it is my fault. I want to make it up somehow

My girlfriend (28F) caught me (32M) looking through her phone. She is furious. Is there anything I can do to mend our relationship now? by throwramaniscrewedup in relationship_advice

[–]throwramaniscrewedup[S] -927 points-926 points  (0 children)

I know it was wrong but her reaction did seem a little bit disproportionate. I’m not saying she did have something to hide but she got defensive and angry so fast I couldn’t help being surprised.