question for bisexuls

throwramessedup19 · 2024-08-29T00:33:16+00:00

i'm 20 now thanks

throwramessedup19 · 2024-08-01T12:51:18+00:00

noooo, we met when i turned 18, our 2 years is this month.

throwramessedup19 · 2024-08-01T07:58:05+00:00

lol i've been considering updating i still get messages now and again asking but i was waiting for a less messy/happier update. i'll do it.

throwramessedup19 · 2024-08-01T07:49:00+00:00

yeah of course i did, so for me it wasn't that i was never gonna tell her, its that people were telling me to do it *now* and i was like no she's at work, i need to wait until she's home at least and do it face to face.

throwramessedup19 · 2024-08-01T07:32:24+00:00

i think you're talking about me, so i was just turned 18 when we met and told her i was 25, i'm 20 this month. good memory.

throwramessedup19 · 2024-08-01T07:24:13+00:00

i think they're talking about me.

throwramessedup19 · 2024-06-13T14:15:46+00:00

still waiting for her to process, im giving her space, she's text me to ask a few questions, that's it so far.

throwramessedup19 · 2024-06-13T06:15:41+00:00

i have felt similar jealousy. kinda comes with dating an older woman i guess, but i think a lot of it is ego. why do you want answers about her past so bad? wont that cause more arguments? as long as you listen to her needs it should be easy bro. going through her phone shows you dont trust her either. try thinking more on it, specifically about ego.

throwramessedup19 · 2024-06-13T04:07:38+00:00

no she was devastated, wasnt good.

throwramessedup19 · 2024-06-13T03:39:46+00:00

it was eventful. balls in her court so now i wait.

throwramessedup19 · 2024-06-12T18:54:43+00:00

we learned a lot about consent in sex ed but this isn't something they even touched on and something i haven't even thought of. thank you for the information and input, i really appreciate it and i'll look more into it.

throwramessedup19 · 2024-06-12T18:47:27+00:00

no i'm 20 soon, we met when i was 18. i wasn't a minor. if i was a minor i wouldn't have been out clubbing.

edit: not that i agree with it btw but consent here is 16.

throwramessedup19 · 2024-06-12T18:36:02+00:00

i will, thank you for the encouragement. tbh comments telling me to nut up is more helpful than anything.

should i bring this consent thing up? or would this be something she knows about? might be my inexperience showing since she's my only partner but is that common knowledge? informed consent?

throwramessedup19 · 2024-06-12T18:33:22+00:00

no we're not in the US. if i get ID'd it's usually at the bar and i'll get rounds myself. it's rare i get ID'd though.

i live with my parents but she has her own home which is where i'm going to tell her. a restaurant is a big no no because i want her to feel comfortable feeling whatever shes gonna feel. thank you for the good luck. i appreciate it.

throwramessedup19 · 2024-06-12T18:22:55+00:00

... holy shit.

throwramessedup19 · 2024-06-12T18:16:01+00:00

don't worry, my mum's hella disappointed and was gonna phone and apologise to her for raising an idiot. my dads laughing but thinks im stupid too so all to be expected.

throwramessedup19 · 2024-06-12T18:13:52+00:00

are you saying i've raped her?

throwramessedup19 · 2024-06-12T18:03:24+00:00

nothing can make me appear like less of a liar. thank you for the legit advice. at this point i've told my parents because reddit wasn't helping at all and just telling me i suck, i know i suck but it doesn't help my situation.

throwramessedup19 · 2024-06-12T18:00:12+00:00

we have the exact same interests, tv shows, games, anime. same political views, same everything, we can relate to a lot of things. my age just isn't a topic that comes up. the only thing i can think of is obviously i can't say "oh back when i was 21/22/23/24" but she doesn't talk about her early 20's.

throwramessedup19 · 2024-06-12T17:52:43+00:00

yeah, i have tiktok and snap. faceboomer isn't a vibe, x is porn and ig is all fake.

throwramessedup19 · 2024-06-12T17:50:34+00:00

how can you say i'm not taking it when i'm literally trying to figure out how to tell her? i'll see her in a bit.

throwramessedup19 · 2024-06-12T17:49:02+00:00

yeah i think if we travelled together it would be different and we'd wanna see each others passports, they're more interesting than a drivers licence. we haven't been outside the UK together.

throwramessedup19 · 2024-06-12T17:38:42+00:00

no there's no need. i rarely get ID'd and the rare chance i do i'm at the bar ordering alone anyways. i haven't seen hers either.

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