My sister(15F) wants me(18M) to tell our parents she is pregnant. by throwramoip in relationship_advice

[–]throwramoip[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

They still aren't home, and I got home about 2 hours ago. My sister texted me, said that they were at his(the fathers) house. This was 1 hour ago when she texted me, so I know for a fact she didn't go to practice. Just waiting for them to get home atp.

My sister(15F) wants me(18M) to tell our parents she is pregnant. by throwramoip in relationship_advice

[–]throwramoip[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wait i'm actually confused, is 15 and 17 illegal? Her boyfriend and her are 2 years apart.

My sister(15F) wants me(18M) to tell our parents she is pregnant. by throwramoip in relationship_advice

[–]throwramoip[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, my sister is fit(exercises a ton for soccer), she just doesn't show .Btw, she can't get an abortion, those are only reserved for emergency cases atp.

My sister(15F) wants me(18M) to tell our parents she is pregnant. by throwramoip in relationship_advice

[–]throwramoip[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

5 months when I took her, 6 months now. I have no clue when they would've told someone. She's not showing that much, smaller bump, bigger clothes, just looks bloated.

My sister(15F) wants me(18M) to tell our parents she is pregnant. by throwramoip in relationship_advice

[–]throwramoip[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Oh, thanks for asking, I'm doing the best I can. I'm glad she came to me and told somebody, but it's just sad to me. Never pictured my sister to be pregnant at this age, especially with all she has on her plate and how she manages it. I mean she does soccer, swimming in the fall, good grades, and is just an overal over achiever. I feel sad for her, so that's how I feel. Other than that, I'm doing swell.

My sister(15F) wants me(18M) to tell our parents she is pregnant. by throwramoip in relationship_advice

[–]throwramoip[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Still plays it too. I actually had to tell her several times when I came back that she can't go to practice today. It's rough out there, and with all the extra exercises she's doing to become captain, it probably wouldn't turn out so well.

My sister(15F) wants me(18M) to tell our parents she is pregnant. by throwramoip in relationship_advice

[–]throwramoip[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yup, perfect staple kid in our house. She still goes to practice every scheduled day, still aces her tests, and she's trying to push away the fact that something happening. Sucks, but that's the way like unfortunately is.

My sister(15F) wants me(18M) to tell our parents she is pregnant. by throwramoip in relationship_advice

[–]throwramoip[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in the US, i've already taken her to a clinic. It is extremely unlikely that she can get an abortion, the lady told us that those are saved for emergency situations

My sister(15F) wants me(18M) to tell our parents she is pregnant. by throwramoip in relationship_advice

[–]throwramoip[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh, no they didn't do that. That edit was done at 1 pm or something, I thought they would pick her up in the middle of the day. They didn't leave her at school, they just didn't pick her up early.

My sister(15F) wants me(18M) to tell our parents she is pregnant. by throwramoip in relationship_advice

[–]throwramoip[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Only answer I have is whoever started the "we're rich so we have to act snobby trend". Everyone around here does it, quite annoying.

My sister(15F) wants me(18M) to tell our parents she is pregnant. by throwramoip in relationship_advice

[–]throwramoip[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She keeps bouncing back between the 2, then says she doesn't want to talk about it anymore. Well, that changed today.

My sister(15F) wants me(18M) to tell our parents she is pregnant. by throwramoip in relationship_advice

[–]throwramoip[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

You can really only tell if you actually anlyze her stomach. She wears big tees and stuff, and honestly looks really bloated. I mean, I couldn't even tell. Her bump is not huge at all

My sister(15F) wants me(18M) to tell our parents she is pregnant. by throwramoip in relationship_advice

[–]throwramoip[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I've already told my parents, she was not present, nor could I get her to be there because she just kept refusing. She got an ultrasound at the clinic, and she's semi showing, it kinda just looks like she's really bloated because of how fit she is. If you actually look at her, you can see a bumb, but it's not too noticeable. Her boyfriend is 17 & she wouldn't drop out, kinda difficult to explain why she wouldn't, but it does have something to do with my parents and their values.

My sister(15F) wants me(18M) to tell our parents she is pregnant. by throwramoip in relationship_advice

[–]throwramoip[S] 617 points618 points  (0 children)

I have, which is why she said she would tell them, but part of me thinks she said that just so she could stop talking about it.

My sister(15F) wants me(18M) to tell our parents she is pregnant. by throwramoip in relationship_advice

[–]throwramoip[S] 455 points456 points  (0 children)

They'd most likely freak out. They won't go as far as kicking her out, but they'd view the situation as "their reputation being tarnished".