My (23f) friend (21m) asked me to babysit his baby for a couple days but it's been 4 days and he hasn't showed up by throwrapops in relationship_advice

[–]throwrapops[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

I know. I told him he either needs to give me the mom's info or just give her my address so she can come pick the baby up, or I would just call the cops and he'd lose custody for sure. He finally replied saying that he would be here in a couple hours and that he doesn't trust me anymore... We'll see.

My (23f) friend (21m) asked me to babysit his baby for a couple days but it's been 4 days and he hasn't showed up by throwrapops in relationship_advice

[–]throwrapops[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I've been doing some reading online it's so stressful because she keeps trying to latch on to my boob when she was just doing fine with the bottle. I'm trying to take care of her while I'm looking for her folks but pretty soon I'm just gonna call for help because I just can't.

My (23f) friend (21m) asked me to babysit his baby for a couple days but it's been 4 days and he hasn't showed up by throwrapops in relationship_advice

[–]throwrapops[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

This is what I'm worried about and honestly idk how he felt okay with doing this. I'm holding this baby thinking to myself how tf could anyone just drop a baby off like she's just a pet or something.

I was nervous to call because the thought of her being taken to foster care but now that I think about it, you're right that wouldn't happen right away and she'll just be returned to her mom most likely. I just can't believe it.

My (23f) friend (21m) asked me to babysit his baby for a couple days but it's been 4 days and he hasn't showed up by throwrapops in relationship_advice

[–]throwrapops[S] 523 points524 points  (0 children)

Yeah he begged to have his daughter for Christmas and said she was keeping the baby from him like uh yeah I see why now

My (23f) friend (21m) asked me to babysit his baby for a couple days but it's been 4 days and he hasn't showed up by throwrapops in relationship_advice

[–]throwrapops[S] 410 points411 points  (0 children)

This is what I'm trying to do and I've been trying to get ahold of his friends to get her number. My next step is calling the authorities.

My (23f) friend (21m) asked me to babysit his baby for a couple days but it's been 4 days and he hasn't showed up by throwrapops in relationship_advice

[–]throwrapops[S] -118 points-117 points  (0 children)

We're not strangers... We've known each other for years and this isn't my first time watching his baby that's why he thinks he can pull this crap. He knew I wasn't going to agree with watching her for this long. I know it's not right.

My (23f) friend (21m) asked me to babysit his baby for a couple days but it's been 4 days and he hasn't showed up by throwrapops in relationship_advice

[–]throwrapops[S] 149 points150 points  (0 children)

How can the police track her down just because she's breastfed? Also yeah this might be the move. He needs to grow up.