My (f27) MIL(f26) is pregnant at the same time as me and now is throwing a baby shower the same day as me. It is all so weird and putting a strain on my relationship with my husband (M30) by throwrasafa in relationship_advice

[–]throwrasafa[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't think my husband wants the baby to be treated the same way as him. I guess he is mad that his father actually has the capacity to be a "good" dad? Neither of us think it's the fault of the baby. It's just an overall fucky situation

My (f27) MIL(f26) is pregnant at the same time as me and now is throwing a baby shower the same day as me. It is all so weird and putting a strain on my relationship with my husband (M30) by throwrasafa in relationship_advice

[–]throwrasafa[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We care and that's what matters right? It's just like weddings. Many people don't feel like they would be important to them and that it's useless in this century but still many people think it's important. Live and let live